oral to a girl that he really likes, but not want to have sex with her? What does a guy really get out of that?
2007-01-17 14:28:18 · 12 answers · asked by Lalalalalala 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sunny: He is truly unselfish and likes to please. He says he doesn't need it in return??!! What's up with that?
2007-01-17 14:37:30 · update #1
I think he really loves you , and feels a very unselfish love for you
They do say that it is better to give than to receive , but I also
think he is feeling very inferior to you , and this is somewhat
unmanly. He is adoring you but also he should be man enough
to fulfill both you and himself... true natural order of things.
2007-01-17 14:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because pleasing a woman is really hot, and oral removes a lot of the complications of sex... pregnancy, STD's, etc.etc. But at the same time I don't know how he does it without wanting to unload, because that can make you real sore down there. He could also have a dysfunction with his member so all he has to work with is oral.
2007-01-17 22:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by dkilbey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A second date.... No seriously, he may be embarrassed of his ..... and is basically trying to "leave you wanting" so when the time comes when you engage in intercourse the excitement & thrill will cameoflauge his short commings. If he only kissed you and nothing else, then I would say he was being a gentleman and wanted to build a relationship, but the giving oral only thing is odd. UNLESS, he actually ejaculated while pleasing you and was embarassed......
2007-01-17 22:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by SamIam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its his way of saying that is what he would really like. Or maybe he is a great unselfish guy and wants to make you happy. Or both.
2007-01-17 22:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want me to be gross? He gets a good close look at it. We guys just LOVE that.
To his credit, he might not want actual intercourse because he is afraid of the risks and responsibilities that come with it, or maybe he knows you're not the right person to commit that deeply to but he still wants to have his fun. Nothing wrong, as long as you're on for the short ride too. Good luck.
2007-01-17 22:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't make a baby for one. and it seems to be a myth that it really isn't sex if you just do the oral stuff. You are naked and it is a sexual act--it isn't changing a tire, is it??
2007-01-17 22:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, nothing at all. If a guy did that and expected nothing in return he must truly love that person.
2007-01-17 22:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the girl can't get pregnant that way and most people don't think of it as sex, it is. You can still get STD's from it too.
2007-01-17 22:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine that response! I love to go down on girls, but I equaly love to get it in return!
2007-01-18 13:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give all I got.
2007-01-17 22:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋