There is this girl at my high school that I like, who also likes me back (though in what way I'm still not sure) I want to hang out with her and she seems genuinely interested, but I have no idea where we should hang out or what we should do; I assume that if we were to hang out it would be with each other, not with anyone else. I'd also like to try and take it slow here at the begining, just to wait and see what direction our relationship goes in. Does anyone have any ideas?
2007-01-17 14:25:18 · 25 answers · asked by wildwildmars 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you want to take it slow bring her to a place that has people around.
You wouldn't want her to feel uncomfortable. Then slowly start to be together only and see how it goes.
Places.. A mall, a park those types of places.
2007-01-17 14:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley[!] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girls like going to malls, maybe to a fast food place, a concert, a movie
but honestly, if you're just getting to know this chick, I would choose a place where I can just focus on HER and no one else. I hate being enclosed in a restaurant with a guy I barely know. I end up having nothing to say and that gets very awkward.
So, take her for a walk (if it's not too cold). Go ice skating. Go to an empty used bookstore (or some other store that's always empty and full of weird things). Go together and talk about things, things about each other, things that come up. And then, if that goes well, get some hot chocolate or something.
Don't worry about spending money. Believe me, getting to know each other is the most important thing! Good luck!
2007-01-17 22:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Karolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start with a movie. It's slow, not much interaction. If you like her company than a nice dinner and conversation might follow for a next date. Not a fancy resturant, just something fun. I don't know where u live. If you are near a beach like us, that is always a fun date.
2007-01-17 22:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Grammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Coffee somewhere. This way, you can hang out and talk. Also, if you go to starbucks they have some really cool hot teas that are very relaxing. This can be a short or long date, depending on how things go. You could even get her to meet you there. That way, there's no pressure, and she can leave when she's ready to or vise versa.
2007-01-17 22:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best place right now if you are not ready to go too far is to take her to a movie just watch the movie and if things go farther make sure you are ready for it and dont just do it to do it....so ya i would say a mmovie and mayb some dinner
2007-01-17 22:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something original, play laser tag or do go-karting. It's also good to do "group dates" so you won't be uncomfortable and she can get to know the real you. Next date can be just you 2 out for a dinner (sushi's a fun option if you like it!)
2007-01-17 22:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by cloudyskies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Local highschool hang out place?...
Uh, Pizza?
Movies
Ice Skating
Downtown, depends if you live in a place where downtown is fun
Laser Tag
im going for something friendly here.....
2007-01-17 22:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nohaymanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can try hanging out somewhere like movies and dinner..If not, it is not wrong to ask her where she wanna hang out..Nothing more special than satisfying what the gurl wants..
2007-01-17 22:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Gurlie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the mall, watch a movie, and if it's not going in the direction either of you want,you can find other ppl to hang with you together or seperate
2007-01-17 22:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people love to try new things. if she is somewhat outgoing, take her to indoor rockclimbing or anywhere that has a fun, new activity. a rollerskating rink or iceskating would be fun too. do something where you guys can talk and get to know each other better but also do something fun
2007-01-17 22:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋