My best friend likes the same boy I do. Help!?

Question

My best friend is as good as a friend can get. She's the best, there's no doubt about that. But we like the same boy. I keep telling myself to step back and let her have him, but first of all, I don't think she's ready to ask someone out, and second of all, all of my friends think he likes me. He always smiles around me, and laughs at my jokes. Don't get me wrong, I REALLY want to let go, and give my friend the longer end of the stick, but I can't. He's in my dreams every night, and I love him to death. What do I do?

Answer 1

OMG GIRL i know this is going to be hard to hear but i think you should back off the SAME THING happend to me and my best friend in the whole world. i mean i almost totally lost her and i knew i was gunna die with out her i mean shes an irreplaceable bff and she means the WORLD to me i mean hun if you value your friendship with this girl no boy is worth loosing her


so heres my advice

forget the boy, friends are forever boys are whatever and no boy is worth risking loosing ur bff trust me you'll regret it if you choose him over ur bff

Answer 2

Lmao,chicks before d*cks I love it when you girls talk dirty.We finally have something to talk about besides who's prettiest in peoples magazine.As to the question,your playing with fire and your feelings twards him will pass I think it's the same problem I face,hormones at an all time high and seeking the companionship you feel you deserve and yes you do deserve.So just find another guy we're not all jerks.

Answer 3

Wow, is this is the same friend who took your place in photography? Is she competing with you with a smile on her face?

If you're still in high school, tho, you'll do a lot better for yourself and your future to not think about dating until you leave high school. It's a major distraction for girls from getting ready for their lives. Just skip it and let your friend get sidetracked!

Answer 4

in no way forget that boys come and bypass yet girlfriends can final consistently.....in the event that they don't permit a boy come between them. It feels like possibly you ought to the two initiate finding someplace else for a boy to weigh down on. yet whilst something does take place between the boy and your buddy, be chuffed for them and understand that it probably would not have worked out between you and him besides.

Answer 5

You have 2 options.

1. Go out with him before she does and risk having to argue with her and possible never talk to her again.

2. Talk with her about it so that BOTH of you will look for an other guy. In other words, both of you forget about the guy and continue on with your lives until you both like different guys.

No friendship is worth losing over a guy.

Answer 6

if you wait too long, some other girl besides you or your friend is going to scoop him up and yall going to be standin in the dust. if I was you i would go ahead and talk to him because it all comes down to who hes more compatible with, and it sounds like its you. Your friend shouldnt get that upset because im pretty sure hes not the only man in town!

Answer 7

talk to your friend and tell her how much you care about her but tell her how much you like him and how badly you really want to date him and say but i dont want to ruin our friendship see what she says but i would go for it she should understand but if it really hurts her choose the friend bc srry but me and my girls stick like this chicks b4 ***** hope it helps


MUffin the advice column

Answer 8

Go out with him before she does.

Answer 9

omg my bff and i went throught the same thing. i almost lost her and she means the world to me. i have four words.

FORGET ABOUT THE BOY!!!