How do i deal with love? I like this guy in school but am afraid to ask him out, what should i do? then what if i do ask him out but HE doesn't feel the same for me?
2007-01-17 14:05:42 · 19 answers · asked by ♥pink panther♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down and talk to him.
You will not gain anything by hiding in the shadows.
Good luck
2007-01-17 14:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're answer is within your question.
You're still in school and think you love him, but you haven't even gone out with him? Just pay attention to education. These emotions will lead you down the wrong road. I would know. I'm 15.
Getting a boyfriend will not fill that gap in your life until you're actually ready to settle down. It is okay to crush, but I wouldn't recommend going out with anyone. Education comes before relationship so you can actually have some interests to talk about in the future.
Relationships at a young age will give you nothing but heart break and anxiety, while education offers you a well-paying job and a steady life.
2007-01-17 14:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Been there done that. Just talk to him and find out who he likes or if he has a girlfriend. Then just tell him you like him but since your afraid to you might want to do it over a holiday, through e-mail, text messaging, a note, etc. Anything were you don't have to look them in the eye and say it because that is really hard and awkward. But if he says no and he is your true friend then everything will be ok. Just do it because you don't want to regret not doing it.
2007-01-17 14:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by critter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you approached it totally from a "casual", friend -like type of thing. Like, instead of asking him out like how someone would ask someone out that they are interested in, approach it in a casual, conversational manner. Lets see if I can give you an example..... hmmmm.......Like you could start talking to him and ask if he's ever been "to wherever" and you could say something like, I havent, but I want to so bad and I was thinking about doing it soon... And then sometime later (that week, or so) you could have a casual conversation with him again, and this time, tell him that you are finally gonna go do this... and HEY, would he like to go with you since you don't really want to do it by yourself.... or something like that....
2007-01-17 14:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt feel the same way at least you asked, and what if he does, then it could be the start of a relationship. I say go for it!
2007-01-17 14:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, honey! If you never ask him out you'll always wonder "what if?" And if he doesn't feel the same way as you do, then just chalk it up to learning and move on...it builds character.
2007-01-17 14:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by senior07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I was having that convo w my ex bf today (were still good firends) and he wanted to ask someone out but had the fear of rejection so i just keep encouragng him
2007-01-17 14:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by prepx3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill girl if he dont like u its ook ther was this i liked and i asked him out through a friend and he said no every time i didnt let it bother me and l8r i found out hes not the 1 4 me but if he does then u go girl but just ask him out k God bless
2007-01-17 14:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by ashley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out in a simple way and if he did not feel the same way dont let him see or feel that you are disappoint.be casual
2007-01-17 14:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel him out first don't out and out ask him. Strike up a casual conversation and go from there.
2007-01-17 14:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋