not just on a date but like when im just talking w/ some one(mainly girls).i mean we will be talking then nothing.
2007-01-17 14:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anarchy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get them to ask you questions and then answer with a question.
Like you would say "hey have you ever seen that movie with Tom Hanks?--I can't remember the name of that--help me out here will you?"
Then she'll start asking you which Tom Hanks movie by naming some off.
Then you might say this when she says "he was in that movie 'Saving Private Ryan'"--
"Yeah that was a good one--did you like that movie?"
2007-01-17 14:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to I suppose you could plan things to say before meeting up with/calling someone. Think of all the important or exciting things that have happened in your day/week/month/life. Use those and it should get the ball rolling.
That happens to everyone, it happens when I talk to my best friend and my little bro; we're just used to the silence now. You don't always have to be talking! Find a way to feel comfortable in the silence between conversations. I personally don't like to be talking to someone (a guy or otherwise) non-stop for long periods of time, you still get bored your mouth is just moving.
Embrace the silence!
2007-01-17 14:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by casa bona vista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question implies that "the conversation" is an entity rather than talking about stuff... You should think of it more like talking to your friends... and just let the conversation flow rather than trying to impress with this and that... You will be surprised at how much more meaningful your conversations will be...
- Take a true interest in THEM!!! and ask questions about them... it is all about them and not you.... DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS THROUGH CONVERSATION.. it doesn't work... the only way to impress anyone is by who you are as a person... nothing you can say can will beat who you actually are!
- good luck
2007-01-17 14:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness,
i have this problem too !
esp. on the phone. =[
blahh it`s so harddd.
haha sometimes when you talk
to someone for so longg,
there`s abs. nothing more to talk about.
=[
2007-01-17 14:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask open ended questions like "what do think about" movie,tv,music,life....
2007-01-17 14:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep asking questions or something
2007-01-17 14:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me to s**** we need help
2007-01-17 14:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋