Alright, so i like this guy alot! and he says he likes me too.. but he says he is "in love" with this other girl... but if he didn't like her he i would be #1 or whatever.. So what do i do!? Do i wait for him to stop being "in love" with her and him to like me? Or do i just give up now because who knows when hes going to stop "loving" her? I like him a lot and i dont think i could just give up... but i dont no when we would ever go out.. because he "loves" her :// I need MAJOR HELP!
2007-01-17 13:57:31 · 6 answers · asked by pagexomichelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the thing is he likes me right now.. but he said he has to figure things out with the other girl.. Because he doesn't think she likes him.. And his sister said that he has said he loves like 3 of his girlfriends.. but this isn't a girlfriend. I really like him alot.. I have never felt this way for someone.. and I think that when he finds out if the girl he suposedly loves doesn't like him I think he is going to move on.. i think that is what he is waiting to find out.. Because he said he isnt opening him self to anyone else right now.. so maybe i should wait a little bit? I really want to be with him.. And everyone says if you like someone enough you would wait forever.. And i would wait my whole life for him :/
2007-01-17 14:58:52 · update #1
I will have to say that this guy sounds worth waiting if you love him like you say. I just would rather not have you hurt so maybe you should move on for a little while act like you don't like him or just wait for him. He may like you but if this girl "stephanie" doesn't like him like he likes her then you will have a chance.. If it is mean't to be he will be with you. but if it isn't mean't to be then god didn't have this in his plans. But I am pretty sure "this guy" like you. it may not be as much as you want it to be but he still likes you. Love is so confusing. To tell you the truth I have liked this guy for a year and a half and I have been waiting for him forever. I just don't know how to express my feelings to him. But back to helping you. Does he ever talk to you? If your heart is telling you to wait for him then wait. but if you don't feel love then move on. Well I hope I have helped you. :D message me to tell me how things have been or just talk to me in person :]]
2007-01-18 08:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by kissxmexholdxme3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-07 21:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by klavon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl baby girl just sit back and listen to yourself. He is in love with another but likes you. Lets use common sense here. If you love someone but like another are you REALLY going to go for the one you like unless you are down in the moment or just in need of some...? I mean honestly. I have been in the same situation. I liked a guy soo much and he was in love with someone else for various reasons. I had to sit back and realize that what I was thinking was crazy as he%% because if I loved someone and liked another I wouldn't want to hurt the one I liked so I would keep them around or give them some lame excuse as to why things are going the way they are. Don't do that to your heart and feelings you deserve more for yourself. There will always be something between the one he loves even if he chooses you. DO NOT DO IT! You know what? Im not even goin' to tell you don't do it because you just might still do it. Just be careful and God Bless You and your decision.
2007-01-17 14:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by BitterSweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you've pretty much got it figured out for yourself. Why would you want to wait around for him to throw you the scraps of his love? If he has told you he is in love with someone else, waiting around for him would be dumb.
He probably does like you but not the way you like him. Scratch him off your list and find someone who has you and only you on his mind. If you were a dog I could see waiting for him to throw you a bone. You're not and you deserve someone who can love you freely and completely.
You said yourself, "Who knows when, or if his feelings for this other girl will change?" Don't waste your time waiting for something that, most likely, will not happen. Move on.
2007-01-17 14:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is something that can come around. Although if he says that he loves someone else try not to pursue him because it doesnt seem right.
2007-01-17 14:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS. NEVER SETTLE FOR SECONDS AND SOMEONE ELSE'S MAIN COURSE. GIRL MOVE ON DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO ISN'T GUARANTEED TO COME BACK TO YOU. YOU DESERVE SOO MUCH BETTER. SO CONSIDER YOUR FEELINGS FIRST AND TELL THAT LAME *** DUDE GOODBYE!!!!! MILLY
2007-01-17 14:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋