Well theres this guy that i met during the summer and we were wicked good friends. We like had like a really special bond together(as friends). Even when he found out i had a crush on him everything was the same. But then school started and he never talked to me.O ya were both in 8th grade. My friend asked him on the bus if he liked me and he said he did a little. But that was in the beginning of the year, so i don't know how he feels now. Also, even when i walk right by him he never says hi. During february vacation i'm going to the camp where we met in and i'm afraid how hes going to react. What should i do to get him to really like me?
2007-01-17 13:54:23 · 12 answers · asked by singyourheartout =) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think i know why he is ignoring or avoiding you...first, maybe cause he is so afraid, scared and shy to let you know that he likes you...and second, that is just his style to know if you like him too...he will pretend that he is avoiding you cause if you will go look for him then for guys that means that you are interested/like/'or got a crush' in him too....so maybe try this one, i have done this when i was in your age to my crush who happend to be my best buddy at school....
make a moment with him...it depends on the situation but try looking for a moment on where you are alone...or away from the crowd...and ask him sincerely the questions.."why i've feel like your avoiding me?"" wait for his answers if he will say "yeah, cause i like you...then let him know what you feel too..but..BUT ......if he will say" no...i'm not, what makes you think that??"....don't talk much, just tell him..."it hurts me alot"...and look into his eye...and you will know it in there...if he will turn away..he likes you...and let him know you like him too...he is just shy i guess...good luck girl!
2007-01-17 14:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Nelz M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this guy doesnt sound like someone who will respect you if you do get into a relationship with him. But since you do, the only way that I think might work, is if you totally act like you do not know him. But make sure you do it in front of him! Act like you are having such a great time, laughing and cracking jokes and being such a fun person! But make sure that you do not acknowledge his existence. The moment you say anything to him first, you have just ruined everything. I bet he will be intrigued and want to be with you, even if for no other reason than because he will no longer think that he can have you....Good luck.
2007-01-17 22:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act as if nothing had happened. he may have another girl at school he is interested in who wasn't there at the camp so he settled for you instead. You are young enough that you wil find a lot of guys before you find one good enough to be a boy friend so don't be in a hurry to grow up!!
2007-01-17 22:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing to remeber is never change yourself for a guy. Boys can be really stupid sometimes, and you should never do anything to change yourself. Another thing i learned over the years is, never focus on one guy or wat one guy. just forget about dating and when the time comes, you'll be pleasantly surprised. now if you really like this guy, play hard to get. Say "hey *whatever the guys name is*, whatsup?" when he responds say "oh cool" then walk right up to another guy almost like ur crush was never there. Don't totally ignore him. Acknowlege the fact that he's there, then blow him off.
2007-01-17 22:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by x0laurrx0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th grade boys can't figure themselves out so the chances of you being able to isn't good. But the good news is that at that age you can still be friends without a lot of pressure to take things to a higher level.
2007-01-17 21:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by John N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw. that`s cute. eeek, sorry. sometimes boys are just wayy too confusing & they get over girls fast. =[ trust me, i know that from experience. i mean, don`t try too hard, that won`t help. try to find someone new to like, that way, you don`t keep your mind always on this boyy.` i don`t know ..try being friends with him again. i mean, i`m sure he remembers you & everythingg. people don`t forget, ever. so you can call him up or even talk to him @ school, saying.. "hey, whats up.. we never really talk anymore.. yeahh. what`s going on with you?" & you can gradually start talking again. [= best of luck ! & if things don`t work out the way you want them to, remember .. there`s plenty of other boys out thereee ! & hey, focus on your grades & school. [ i`m in 8th grade too ]
2007-01-17 22:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. if he does like you he will come around and if he doesn't don;t sweat it. maybe there;s someone else much sweeter and nicer waiting to meet you. keep you self esteem up and keep being who you are. apparently you didn;t change and seem like he did. if he don;t wanna be friends with you anymore someone else will catch your eye and he just might be a lil too late. keep a pleasant additude and smile. from what I hear from you, you are a very sweet person. I hope your friend come around and let you know how he really feels about you. be patient your day will come . i hpoe real soon.
2007-01-17 22:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by honeybunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he does not talk to you act like it really doesn't matter. and if doesn't like you its his loss. a guy is like a bus ride there is always going to be more
2007-01-17 22:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by wkerr99_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow just walk up to him and say i love you and if you dont love me back i am fine and then just be friends
2007-01-17 22:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by soy sauce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore him. don't even act like he's in the same room.
2007-01-17 21:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋