i was having a discussion with my friends and we asked are selfs why are all the WHORES getting the goods guys?LIKE THERE ACTUALLY TURNING HOES INTO HOUSE WIVES!! Do you guys like to get mistreated... do you prefer high maintenance girls...bitchy ones ??? goSh WHATS THE DEAL ?? LOL
2007-01-17 13:52:07 · 25 answers · asked by realist86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LoL... no, its just that as young boys, this is what comes to our attention first....sex....and there are more than enough young ladies looking for attention, and misinterpret sex as a way to get it, so they throw themselves at the young boys. As we get older, we look for the usual action to reoccur, as many young ladies never grow out of this "habbit." "Good" girls outgrow it before it happens. The problem is most of the "Nice Guys" are the ones you didn't think were cute then, and sure as hell are'nt now. lol. Just because you didn't throw yourself at "tony," did'nt mean he wasn't a heartthrob to you.
2007-01-17 14:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by diggamann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys hate self-righteous girls who look down on other people for their mistakes.
It is good to be pure, moral and clean, but when you go around putting down other people for not having as much self-control as you, then it makes people suspect that: (a) you are hiding something (criticizing others takes the attention away from you); or, (b) you are acting "good" for the wrong reasons (to get attention; to be a snob; etc.). No one wants to marry a snob who hates & criticizes everyone else; sooner or later, she will turn that burning critical tongue on you.
Who are these people that you are calling "whores" anyway? Are these "hoes" really "hoes", or are you just making that up because they are getting more attention?
No one wants to date a bitter, unhappy person. Often the "hoes" get the guys because they act like they are happy to meet you, and they are usually less critical & act more understanding than the snobby, cold, so-called "good" girls. it may be an act, but they usually know how to make a guy feel accepted.
2007-01-17 22:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you think they are getting the good guys?
if you are by your definition a good girl.. then why would you want a bad BOY?
Bad boys get all the whores.. good men do not, nor do they seek them out. They may be tempted but they do not seek them out and the whores know it. But whores thrive on attention be it from a bad guy to a good guy. So if you think the good guys have been taken.. then either you have set your standards way too low or you do not know what a good guy is.. or you over look real good guys because they do not look hot enough.. and that makes you shallow ....just like the whores....
so what is it you want ?
2007-01-17 22:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sure as hell seems like nice girls finish last but once you get to that finish, the wait will have been worth it. Everything we needed to know we learned in kindergarten: boys are stupid. All they do is think with their penis and think that they can be with someone that is not cut out to be in a relationship. Chances are, he's confusing the sexual attraction to someone that puts out with truly liking her. Being one of the "good" girls, it sucks that it takes so long but you will find somone that will want to be with you because you have respect for yourself and stand your own ground. And this guy will be better than any of those guys that think they can successfully date a sl*t.
2007-01-17 21:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by ColleenM7387 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question!!!
I think guys pick the hoes so they can just have fun before they get ready to settle down, when they want to settle down, they ditch the hoes and find themselves a nice girl.
Or, at least I hope so
2007-01-17 21:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Men do not turn hoes into housewives, and if they do; it often doesn't turn out well. They date slutty girls like that, but truthfully they do not marry them. Good Girls do Finish First, in the long run.
2007-01-17 21:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately guys with a testosterone surge tend to look more at flash than anything else. However I believe that good girls do not finish last. Good girls end up with good guys!
2007-01-17 21:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm..I was a virgin until I was 18 and now I'm engaged to the first man I ever had sex with. He's amazing and the best man i've ever met. So I think nice girls always finish first cause we're in it for the long-run, not just as long as the money runs.
2007-01-17 21:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi, Don't know how old you are but a real man wants a woman that knows who she is and has values and boundaries.
We definitely don't want one that is loose and easy.. sleeps around with whomever whenever... These women (and men) are tossed aside by people that truly want an open honest real committed relationship...
- TRUST ME...
2007-01-17 21:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by gjm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why any guy would want a whore. There's more than sex to any relationship, a whole lot more the longer you're with someone.
2007-01-17 21:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Don S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋