I started seeing someone last week but have known him longer. We have been e-mailing each other for a while longer over a month..and i can barely contain my uh enthusiam any longer...how do I know when he is ready...we both want to be careful...but I just can't have him in the same room without almost exploding with uh enthusiasm. Should i learn to control my hormones and wait ? How do I?
2007-01-17 13:49:12 · 16 answers · asked by tunafish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long did you wait?
2007-01-17 13:50:54 · update #1
yes you should wait little wile.just to make sure it not your hormones. that he is the really the right one. when you first meet someone your feeling are all over the place. but when you really get to know one there not what you first though.then you done made the mistake.
2007-01-17 14:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by micki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get to know this guy a lot better before the two of you get intimate. Whenever both of you feel it's the right time and there's no pressure from him, then it's the right time. Discuss it with him and know what you want, don't go asking people online, just follow your heart. I waited a little over 5 months before doing anything sexual with my boyfriend, and I think it worked out great because we love each other based on other things not sexual things.
2007-01-17 21:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by lovelylittlelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited with my boyfriend for over a year.. but I don't know if this would be good advice for you, because we both had never had sex before, so we waited until we made sure we were serious enough about it... I would just say whatever feels right to both of you. You might want to hold back a little longer if you want it to be a more serious relationship.
2007-01-17 21:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can put a time limit on when to be intimate with someone. If it feels right and you both know that you want to be careful and not mess anything up, you should just go for it. Chances are it will just bring you closer to that person and you will feel a sense of relief if all works out well, which it sounds like it will.
2007-01-17 21:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by ColleenM7387 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what feels right. There is no appropriate amount of time to wait. It's sex. As long as you're not a virgin who cares? Just let it happen naturally. With my husband, I only waited a month. But it felt longer.
2007-01-17 21:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think it should come natural. make sure u know how many partners he has had. and both of u should get tested because its crazy out there. i would wait maybe the min 3months and then see how it goes but if its is the spare of the moment and u both are hot then i guess let it be..but honestly just slow it down. his penis is not going anywhere
2007-01-17 21:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by melissa f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be true to yourself. Do what feels right to you. If you are ready then do it. Don't wait until I think it's right or the next gril thinks it's rihgt. Just do what is best for you. I always did. And I have little regrets.
2007-01-17 21:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no actual time set till 2 people end up in Bed togather. Everyone is different, it just depends on how you beoth feel about eachother.
2007-01-17 21:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by XXXXX X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least wait till you know for sure you are not going to catch something.
2007-01-17 21:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by bittywrap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you're married. You'll never regret waiting.
2007-01-17 21:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Karen About Others 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋