Here's the story.
42 yr old white male asking a 23 yr old black female contiously? (Don't know if race is an issue here besides the other problems)
I don't have a problem with us, we like each other and have clearly expressed that.
My problem is that he keeps asking me out at work and keep canceling on me every time we plan to go out.
We did go out on one date (read my prev . question)
The other day, he told me we should be friends for NOW. He keeps telling me he is very attracted to me and he wants us to be together, but according to him, the age difference and the fact that we work together is an issue.
He has also been avoiding me at work and he even moved his desk so he doesn't have to see me (don't know if that is the actual reason, but makes sense to me)
Soooo confused, please help. Is he playing mind games. Also, a co worker today told me he was talking b.s about me about a month ago (dont really know if thats the truth)
2007-01-17 13:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by vsweety 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he has problems and if you stay involved in any way other than just a co-worker you're going to end up with problems too. I don't know what's going on with him, but I'd stay away from him, congratulate yourself on getting out before things got messy and find someone who will treat you right.
2007-01-17 13:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from 47, single, and never married
would not consider age or race to be a problem but usually the co-worker thing is for some reason....especially if it doesn't work out
sounds like you should move on to me.... he is a waste of your time
2007-01-17 22:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by just my answer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront him in very nice way about the co worker words if his is a different answe then get the two together to see whats what are just say to hell with him it do sound like a mind game is being played he may think that you watched something new lol
2007-01-17 21:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a winner. Yes he is playing games with you.
2007-01-17 21:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by anji d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run away...this guy has a problem and it's not you...stay away..
His age isn't the problem, his actions are...he's a nut...and if you want to stay sane, leave him alone and don't answer the phone or anything else...
2007-01-17 21:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is playing major games and was probably just hoping for a booty call.
leave him be and find yourself a guy that will treat you decent.
2007-01-17 21:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-17 21:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get rid of him and get with me(=
2007-01-17 21:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋