This guy wants to ask me out tomorrow..i dont want to hurt his feelings bye saying no.....but i kinda like another guy above my grade......I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!
2007-01-17 13:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by *Lily* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends exactly what you feel for the guy who wants to ask you out. If you only want to say no because you like the other guy MORE, then perhaps you need to think a bit more about who you would be better with. Looks aside a little, compatibility terms here. If you know there is absolutely nothing there and you don't like him as more than a friend then just be honest with him, tell him you think he's a really great guy and that you wish you could see him as more than a friend, but you really can't. And that you hope it doesn't ruin your friendship. As for the other guy, it depends on the situation, if you know him then just act a little more interested in him romantically. Spend more time with him. Get to know him better. Sit a bit closer when you talk. You know, little things, eventually if he likes you back, he'll start reciprocating and something will happen. Just don't say no to the other guy now when in a couple of months you realise you don't really like the one you thought you did and want to be with him instead. Think it over before making any rash decisions.
2007-01-17 14:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by alittlelesslostboys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do is be honest that never hurts...just tell him you are sort of interested in someone else and when that all passes if it does you will consider going out with him but as for now u cannot go out and say your sorry but maybe next time take care
2007-01-17 21:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends..if you don't think he's your type and there would be no future dating then tell him straight that you don't think he's your type and see him as a friend..DON'T tell him you like that other guy it will just make things worse..but keep things friendly cause you never know, he might be a great guy if the other one doesn't work out :)
2007-01-17 21:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by gemstone2421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do...
the hard thing to do and the right thing most of the time are the same thing...
2007-01-17 21:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by no free rides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask out the other guy first
2007-01-17 21:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this soo happend to me too! i say make him feel like he has a chance and then..let him down easy
2007-01-17 21:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gently let him down and ask the othera guy out !
2007-01-17 21:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by really hot girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him!
tell him that you see him more as a friend and you wouldn't want to ruin your friendship.
2007-01-17 21:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by lyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋