I'm 13 and my sister is 16. My sister has a one year old son and sometimes I have to watch him. This was one of one of them days. I invited my friend Samantha over to my house so we could talk and I told my sister I would watch Jaden ( my nephew ) while she went to sleep in her room. So like after 1 hour of talking with Samantha and watching Jaden I went to the bathroom and Samantha was the only one in the living room watching Jaden. All of a sudden I heard Jaden start crying so I finished up in the bathroom and went to go check on him. As soon as I come out the bathroom
Jasmin ( My sister ) - Why Jaden fell?
Me- I don't know
Jasmin- Why he always falling? You was suppose to be watching him.
Me- I was in the bathroom, what are you talking about?
Jasmin- You the reason why he alaways f`ucking falling
Me- Ummm I'm not his mother, you suppose to be watching him.
Jasmin- F`uck you, you was suppose to be wathching him, so why the f`uck you went to the bathroom
Me- Stop f`ucking screaming
2007-01-17 13:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Jasmin- I hate you. You get on my f`ucking nerves. Dumb b`itch.
Me- Why are you cursing out me?
Jasmin- Because my son fell and you wasn't there and you was suppose to be watching him
Me- You know what Jasmin just shut the f`uck up, because it's not my fault you even got a baby.
Jasmin- Well guess what I'm telling my mom yuou got a boyfriend and you gonna end up just like me.
Me- No you're a s-l-u-t, and I'm not gonna be a s-l-u-t and lose my virginity at 14.
* She then goes back to the room and takes Jaden like I care *
I'm planning on deleting her myspace because I could be mean like that.
2007-01-17 13:45:13 · update #1
My dad doesn't live with me and my mom is always at work so it's not much they can do.
2007-01-17 13:58:30 · update #2
First of all it is not your falt accident and your a child yourself you should be doing sleep overs and haveing friends come over and you go there. Just because a child had a baby doesn't mean that you are her built in babysiter and 1 yr olds fall down all the time even 2 yr olds. still do. And from you having to be the babysitter and seen her mistakes as a child you have learned from hers by being pregnant at the age 15 and she might be jelous because you still have a life and she doesn't she is a mommy now and BABY always comes first before alone time or anything! I think you went to the bathroom to use like we all do she had no right yelling and cussing at you, you were doing her a favor letting her get rest! My friendsnever got rest the baby was with them all the time except at school no naps unless baby did there parents would not let her sisters or brothers watch the baby you made your taking care of it we will provide for you and the baby! Sorry that she is taking her anger out on a 13 yr old girl! Just learn from your sisters past(believe he's not a mistake now but she just did something stupid at a young age and know has it for the rest of her life! I wish both of you GL and God Bless you three! You only have one sister be the bigger one and say sorry but i was using the restroom and doing you a favor letting you sleep and get caught up on some rest! You blaming me was wrong and it was not anyones fault and you know I would NOT hurt him or want him to get hurt he's my nephew I love him and want the best for him and you! Sorry for tryin to help you out! But I still love ya sis!
2007-01-17 14:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by dctalk30s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow a 16 year old mom---it certainly shows that she was way too young for a baby----she was the one that made him---she is the mom---from now on SHE should watch the baby. The fight is over--forget it. Join some clubs or go to the library or find stuff to do so you are too busy to watch Jaden. And where is your mom? Just curious---what does she say---oh where is the dad? Man ,this sounds like a tough problem you need to steer clear of. The baby is an innocent party and shouldn't be neglected or used as a lever to split you and your sister. Please be understanding and please remain calm. I know you have your life to lead but your sister has an issue that needs to be dealt with. 13 is too young to be responsible for a baby---you are too young...not a knock on you but the law even thinks that 13 is too young. Your sister better have a good reason for not taking care of the baby. Get daycare or hire an adult. You and your mom are not the mom to the child. Your sister has to realize that.. And why is your sister cursing at a 13 year old. Filthy language is a sign of losing control of a situation...she certainly didn't lose any control when she laid down with some guy to have sex. Remind yuorself that she is probably sorry for having done what she did but won't say it. Family is supposed to be thick---do your best to stand by her within reason. I really wish you luck and try to remember to be nice.
2007-01-17 13:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am a mother and I was a single mother (not a teen mom, but a single mom none the less) and I didn't get the LUXURY of taking a nap when ever I felt like it. When you are a mom you don't get to sleep when you are tired, you don't get to eat when you are hungry and you don't get to shower when you are dirty... you don't get to do anything until your child's needs are met and then and only then do you get to take care of yours.
Your sister sounds angry and bitter, the sad thing is that the only person that she has any right to be angry with is herself but she is taking it out on you.
Your sister needs a lot of help but there is nothing that you can do to change her or help her until she wants it (sounds like she needs to grow up).
Don't agree to watch your nephew anymore... just be the best Aunt that you can be but don't forget that you are a kid and you should be acting like a kid! Not a substitute mother!
Talk to you mom about your problem with your sister and the threats that she is making. If that doesn't work then maybe you could live with your dad... you need time to be 13 and should not have to pay for your sisters mistakes.
2007-01-17 14:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way she is going to stop taking advantage of others is when she is put out into the world to fend for herself and her child. She will soon learn that the things she takes for granted now will become cherished in her life. As long as you and your dad keep allowing her to act as she does, she is never going to change. Calling names and fighting is not an answer. the entire family needs to set up some boundries and ground rules that need to be respected and followed. Your sister needs to go out and get a job and pay for her own body wash. If she did not pay for the bottle she thinks you used, then she should not complain if it is being used by someone other than her. Re-examine all of your positions in the family. Make the necessary adjustments, both physically and mentally and always keep in mind that there is an impressionable mind absorbing all that goes on in the house. Don't allow the child to emulate the mother's poor choices; give him a better chance than that.
2016-05-24 01:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is NOT your fault that your nephew fell and wound up hurting himself. Your sister chose to make her bed, and now she has to lie in it. It is not your responsibility to watch your nephew. She needs to take care of her son and she has a lot of growing up to do. It is okay to tell her no if she asks you to watch him again. Don't worry about her. Focus on what you should be doing and don't sweat the small stuff. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-17 14:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you sis has a bit of growing up to do, you could stop this by simply refusing to watch the kid so much, she needs to open her eyes and check the situation here cause it aint right that a 13 year old sis has to do her job as a mother!!
2007-01-17 13:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to take care of her own child, Just you remember that he is hers,,, Don't let her down you at all,its not rite,,, Little kids will fall, thay will get bump, and cut , But don't take the abuse from her or she will all ways think she can do it to you all the time,,, Just say no to her and she'll will change about the way she talk to you,,, Good Luck,,, kiddo you all rite and you'll be just fine
2007-01-17 13:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by bill_ray56 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to argue with somebody about being responsilbe when that person is clearly irresponsible.
It's a losing battle. It's like trying to teach a pig to sing. All your going to do is waste your time and annoy the pig.
2007-01-17 13:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by no free rides 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your plan of NOT losing your virginity at 14. The best revenge will be to finish high school (with no baby!), go to college, and be successful. You go, girl! I'm rooting for you!
2007-01-17 14:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell Jasmin it is her responsibility to watch her child. It's not your fault she spread her legs and got knocked up.
2007-01-17 13:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋