Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring?
Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I play my cards right, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now.
Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here?
None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something?
Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men?
2007-01-17 13:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had the same experience you have. Many women do not like men who treat them nicely - they prefer assholes who will abuse them and cheat on them. These women have low self esteem, due to really bad childhoods and abusive or absent fathers. Basically, when they date the assholes, they're dating guys who were just like their fathers and their mother's boyfriends, and they're trying to get their father to love them by chasing after men who are scumbags just like their dad's were. Decent men like you and me don't have a chance with women like that - and, on the real, we probably woudn't want to be with women like that!
2007-01-17 13:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
WOW - Full on. This is a fairly generalised statement about women in general. I think you just seem to be meeting and going out with the wrong type of woman, or not getting to know them as well as you think to find out exactly what they are after in a man. Yes there are a lot of woman, who like the idea of being homemakers and doting on their husbands/partners, but there are a lot of woman out there who just want an equal. Someone to share everything with 50/50 no matter what. I wish you all the best, and assure you that there is someone out there for you, you just shouldn't be looking for and she will turn up when it is least expected.
2007-01-17 21:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are meeting the wrong girls!! I find it that most women are looking for the ones that look like a jerk and act like it too! your meeting the wrong ones!
A female like me want to be cared for not be a possession it's bull no one owns anyone. I want to be treated as a person nothing less! you have a lot of good points and I think you are right most girls do. so my question for you is where are the good guys that dont do that!! Email me back with that one!!
Robin
2007-01-17 21:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Robin t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was on the news the other nite that 51% of women are choosing to say single now days. I wouldn't worry if I was you dont try to change for nobody it dont work anyway, and by the way your looking for a partner not someone you own. If they wont to be owned by someone that's a bad deal. Dont mess with it. They are worped up or something.
2007-01-17 21:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by bittywrap 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think being nice, outgoing etc.... is boriing. It's probably more like that those other guys have a slightly more dangerous attitude about them, a confidance that says they'll get what they want.
A lot of woman are attracted to that, not so much having a guy treat her like his personal slave but the image that he will get what ever he wants
2007-01-17 21:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thankfully, I'm not in love with "most women". I consider myself very lucky to be the "personal possession" of my Sweet Mistress. Get out of the 'Rat Race' and lighten up. It'll open your eyes to true love and you might even enjoy life.
2007-01-17 22:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
women often feel that the man is in control and they feel safe and do not have to make any of the decisions (take no responsibility) that is a strong reward (like telling me where you want to eat tonight or what movie we are going to) try being more assertive (not necessarily an bad thing)
2007-01-17 21:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. " And you are basing your question solely on YOUR past expierences. YOU need to figure out what it is about YOU that make them only want ONE date with you or what it is about YOU that is attracted to those kinds of women. Not ALL women are as you claim and since you only have your own expierences to go on you have no clue as to what ALL women are looking for.
2007-01-17 21:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
LOL the thing I could say is try change your style. Say, like wear casual and change your hairstyle at least that gives them an good impression
2007-01-17 21:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a girl likes a guy, she would love to be treated like his own possession. Since she likes him, it gives her a good feeling that she belongs to him.
2007-01-17 21:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋