It all started when my lecturer told me to stay behing after class for private tutioning, at first i did not make much of it and attended, then I realised that I had been the only one to attend these classes although he claimed that he had invited other students of the group. Yesterday during these private tutioning lessons, he told me that he would pass me if I would take part in a threesome with him and his wife. I am a single parent with 4 children who is struggling to make ends meet, and really needs to pass otherwise If failed I will have to drop out as I wont be able to afford to continue, I am a respectfull muslim, what shall I do, shall I do it and pass, or fail and fail my children please help
2007-01-17 13:31:04 · 27 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im at his house at this minuet , they are getting ready for me, i have two minuets, shall I do it ??????????????????????????
2007-01-17 14:02:26 · update #1
just incase no one believes me and so there is no confusion, i have taken all previouse answers to my so called "unrealistic " questions to prepere this one thankyou for your time and by the way have you seen "RUSSEL"
2007-01-17 14:12:37 · update #2
bring "russle"
2007-01-17 14:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jay77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything to disrespect you nor your kids. He has a lot of nerves to say something like that to you. No do not do it if he fails you then you can go the the counselors and tell them what he told you next time get a tap recorder and record it and if he fails you then you will have the proof on tape. Do your work and do not follow thru on it you need to tell someone anyway cause you may not be the only one that he is doing this to. He is not right and do not need to be a teacher at all. Your diginity, confidence, self respect and family play a big role in this there are other teachers thaat you can take the course from just switch classes.
2007-01-17 21:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it. Sleeping with this man may get you through this course, but it will destroy your dignity and self esteem. I'm sure if you work hard and focus on your studies you can make it through this.
I know it must be hard with your children and all, but how do you think they will view their mother if for some reason they ever found out? How would you feel about your relationship with them? This is a form or sexual harrassment and it is illegal, this man could be prosecuted for his and lose his teaching license, I strongly suggest you report him to some kind of authority. Goodluck, and I hope you do the right thing
2007-01-17 21:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by whitelampshade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some help report him to the authorities, thats sexual harassment, file a report to the school administration, and then got to the police they will help you out, he will most likely be removed from his job when he is found guilty, and him using your grades is just plain extortion which is also illegal, he can be imprisoned for that. i hope things go well for you, because Allah is frowning on him and will surely punish him for his lustful and evil act. so just hang in there, alert the authorities and you will be safe.
Aslaam walaikim
2007-01-17 21:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go directly to the head of the college and let them know what's going on. NO person can blackmail you into sex for a good grade!
2007-01-17 21:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has a boss, then tell his boss what's up. If his boss is as perverted as he is, or he doesn't have a boss, then go to the police immediately. Even though you don't want to fail, you shouldn't submit to perverted blackmailing like this.
2007-01-17 21:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd report him to whoever is in-charge, blackmail is illegal (at least in the USA, I believe). Normally people do get fired if proof is found of said blackmail.
2007-01-17 21:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Erica S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you will not! Never degrade yourself to noone who doesn't have the decency to show you respect. If you can tape record him saying things to you and show it to the dean. Otherwise, you may have to find another school to attend.'
2007-01-17 21:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by TASHA J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn first off I respect you for even thinking to actually do it for your kids but you know it depends on you. I mean ask yourself do you think its right? Do you want to do it? Is there any other way? Or you can always complain and sue his *** for sexual harrasment haha that always works.
take care
2007-01-17 21:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and press charges against him!!!! Do it right now. He will be charged and fired, you will be given an oppurtunity with another teacher to finish your class and you will pass. Call the police......call right now!!!!!
2007-01-17 21:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Principal? Dean? Have you not thought of contacting them? There are laws, and he would probably get thrown out, after hearings.
2007-01-17 21:36:25 · answer #11 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋