We are having our wedding at the court house, but have no idea where to hold the reception.
2007-01-17 13:29:59 · 19 answers · asked by Foxtrot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I doubt it seriously. It was never an issue in the church I used to attend. They are far more interested in your money than your religious affiliation.
If there is a problem of the type you describe may I suggest you contact the VFW, a local Moose Lodge, local hotels and/or larger restaurants with banquet rooms. Our local Public Service Television Station even has a facility available for parties and the like.
A few minutes in the Yellow Pages under "Banquet Facilities" might be a good idea as well.
Good luck in the coming years, I hope you have as many anniversaries as my wife and I have had. That would be 35 at last count...
2007-01-17 13:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really will depend on the church. At my church, Members can use any facility for free, but they will let non-memebers use the church or fellowship hall for a fee. This is how it works at most churches in my area, some however say no member, no go!, catholic churches especially....my best advice is call the place you want to use and speak to someone and see what the policy is as it will vary! I'm doing the opposit, gettin married at the church and going to a neutral site for the reception so we can party! haha! Good luck and congrats!
2007-01-18 02:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Most Churches if you are a member they will not charge you anything to use the Church's facilities.. No you do not have to be a member to rent the Church's reception Hall, it does however help if you know a member of said Church..
2007-01-17 13:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your own mind about this but use this information. MOST early marriage problems revolve around money or lack of it. The getting used to being together full time and how to live together are things which can be overcome. Lack of money or where to get more is not something which can be very easily. Starting out with a loan for the wedding may put you in a hole from which you cannot recover. The fairy tale script to the Girl's lifetime dream wedding is all wonderful for the wedding industry. It does not serve a couple well if they put themselves behind the 8ball to start. The wedding becomes a blur anyway. Save your money, pay out of pocket and use any leftover funds for the honeymoon. You will remember those details far longer.
2016-05-24 01:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every church is different, even among the same denomination. But if you rent a church hall they usually expect you to abide by their standards, such as no drinking, no smaoking & sometimes no dancing. So before you commit to anything get the particulars.
You can usually rent a part of a VFW or lodge of sorts. Just check around, you should be able to find reception venues in your area.
2007-01-17 13:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most churches that have a reception hall on the premises make extra money by renting their halls to the publice for birthdays,weddings,debuts,etc.. And no,you don't have to be a member of that group or organization to rent the hall. Just make sure you can pay and agree to their terms.Nine times out of ten,the price for cleanup,security are included in the price.
2007-01-17 13:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the church you should call the pastor and ask. I would look for a hotel or community center as people may not understand why the wedding wasn't in the church. You could always see if the pastor was willing to officiate for you some will even if you aren't a member of their church.
2007-01-17 13:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's dependent on the church in question; each congregation has their own rules. Check with the church office to see if they are willing to rent the hall for a reception.
2007-01-17 13:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually not, but they usually charge non-members more. I would call the church and check with them. Also keep in mind that most churches to NOT allow alcohol at the reception. :)
Good Luck!
2007-01-17 14:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. I remember when I was helping my brother and sister-in-law with their wedding, some places refused and said you had to be a member of the church, other places said yes. So I would suggest that you call the place directly and talk with someone.
2007-01-17 13:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋