well theres this girl at my school that i talk to sometimes and my female friend that i talk to a lot said that she likes me but im really shy so i try and get my female friend to ask her out for me cause she friends with her but every time i get my friend to ask her she likes "oops i forgot" but i text the girl that likes me form time to time but im scared if she says "no" it will be kinda strange at school so what should i do
2007-01-17 13:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by anymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write her a note.u can get ur friend 2 give it 2 her or u can give it 2 her urself.w/e u want.it doesnt hurt as bad 2 b rejected on a sheet of paper just incase she says no.
2007-01-17 13:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by sweet.brunette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to learn to tough it out, swallow your nerves and TRY. Just stride up to her sometime when she's not talking to someone else and simply say "I really like you and I think you're pretty and a half. I'm a little nervous, but not too much to TELL you that! I'd like to take you out sometime soon and whenever works for you will work for me. Would you enjoy that and if so, what do you like to do most? Dinner and a movie or do you have another idea?"
If she seems pleased and open to it, great, roll with it. If she says "Let me think about it," say "Okay, I'll talk with you again next week." Don't let it hang for too long or she might think you're not serious enough. Sometimes a girl will "test" your interest that way. If she says anything but yes, like "I'm seeing someone else" or "I just like you as a friend," do this: take it like a man, smile and say "Okay, that's fine. I just felt like you were worth the effort. No problem!"
If she'll go out with you, great; if she turns you down, you didn't lose anything, as it wasn't gonna happen anyway. CONTINUE to be nice to her afterwards and don't pout or act like a heel. She doesn't owe you anything but courtesy and if you show it to her, you'll at least have a name as a nice guy. That wins more points with women than many guys realize, so she might come around later or one of her other friends will become more interested in you as a result. Part of being a "real man" is being a decent GUY. If you can handle a turn-down with class, your chances of getting a Yes will improve. Girls like a little macho, but the best ones are even more taken with confidence and courtesy.
2007-01-17 21:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by gamerathon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her! Seriously, what's the worst that can happen?? If she says no, she says no. Things may be tense at school for a bit, but it will pass. And honestly, her saying "no" isn't the worst case scenario. Worst case scenario is you looking back years from now wondering "what if...."
Think about it.
2007-01-17 21:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls think its lame when guys have someone ask them out for them so you need to be a man and ask her yourself sometimes girls will go out with you just because you are brave enough to ask, i have this friend who had his friend ask a girl out for him and i knew the girl liked him cuz she told me but she said no just because he didnt ask her himself so even if you get rejected its worth a shot, beleive i know from experience and then other girls will feel sorry for you so they will start talking to to you, getting rejected is probly one of the best ways to meet girls beleive if or not
2007-01-17 22:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean but if you dont then wont you drive yourself crazy and wonder if she would really of said no.
your young so just do it you only live once but just be carefull becasue the choices you make today will be your 2marow!!!
Good luck
2007-01-17 21:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose? She is waiting for you to ask her out. Trust me. As a female, I know these things. Just ask her to go to a movie or to lunch. She is waiting for you.
2007-01-17 21:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advice is that you cant gain anything if you dont try. things at school might getwierd if she says no but if you dont ask her then you will not be able to have a gf
2007-01-17 21:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and ask her at school... its alot better to do it in person... Your just afraid of rejection... i dont blame you its a pretty scarry thing. I am still scared of getting rejected... Alot of guys are
2007-01-17 21:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. If she says no then ask a different girl out.
2007-01-17 21:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Herb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask! it hurts to be rejected but if she says yes think about how much you can gain.
2007-01-17 21:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋