my girlfriend is pretty, funny, sweet, caring, adorable, helpful, smart, EVERYTHING GOOD. I love her more than anything.
BUT i met this girl a couple of days ago who asked me out well shes BEAUTIFUL, the most beautiful girl ive ever seen, i dont even know her real well but shes SO HOT idk what to do i really WANT HER but how do i break up with my girlfriend ? should i break up with her ?
2007-01-17 13:18:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't advise you to break up with your girlfriend just because another girl asked you out. What if this other girl dumps you or turns out to be a total nightmare? Why mess up a good thing just because you lust after another girl? I think your best bet is to stay with the girl who is "EVERYTHING GOOD" in your words.
2007-01-17 13:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably - if you are looking at other girls and they are asking you out and you are not putting it out there that you are not available - then you are not relationship material.
At least you have this part right. Break up with your girlfriend FIRST - then go out with other people.
You didn't say how old you are. Some people are not ready for a one on one relationship until they are in their mid 20's or 30's.
Ask yourself - how did you end up with a girlfriend??? Why are you in a relationship? How is it that you are in a relationship and looking at other women? My guess is that you don't really want to be in a relationship. BUT - most women will want a commitment from you. That's our nature.
This is important too. Did the "Hot Girl" know that you had a girlfriend when she asked you out?? If so - I think she is a creep - and why would you want her when you have a pretty, funny, sweet, caring, adorable, helpful, smart, EVERYTHING GOOD girlfriend.
My 12 year old is sitting here with me - and she says that you are not good enough for your existing gf. You have a perfect gf - and you are thinking about breaking up with her just because you found a really hot girl who you don't even know that well.
Hate to tell you - but I think my 12 year old is pretty darn smart. Probably smarter than you!!!
Good luck
2007-01-17 13:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sooo mean.. ur current gf doesnt deserve you. if she was to find a much better looking man than you, and then u come on here and found her askin about what she should do, HOW WOULD U FEEL??? if ur current gf is everything u could ask for AND MORE then dont break up with her.. I think u should let her know this.. but yea like the rest wrote u shouldnt loose the one u love for the one u like.. more n likely this other girl is a very mrean ***** just cuz shes soo hot shes probably a horrible gf.. girlfriends like u just dexcribed about ur current, are hard to come by buddy
I hope u mkae the right choice
2007-01-17 13:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you break up with your girlfriend just because someone hot asked out out. that i so shallow, no offense though. If your girlfriend is pretty, funny, sweet, caring, adorable, helpful, smart and you love her more than anything, it would be really dumb to let her go. that's my opinion. you shouldn't hurt an innocent girl just because you saw someone else that looks better.
2007-01-17 13:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by julie_ramrattan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The current girlfriend is pretty, the second is beautiful. Notice the placement of these words in your sentences. It is the first thing you say about why you like her. Get Real! It never was about looks, buddy, it is what is in the soul! I hope you are liked by a girl for something other than your looks. That is too shallow for me.
2007-01-17 13:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would just tell your wonderful and stable gf that you have lust in your heart for another woman and you can't possibly be a heel and remain her boyfriend.. Of course you could get all kinds of social diseases and stuff but that's okay your doing the decent thing and I hope if you decide you made a big mistake that she tells you to take a long walk off a short plank!
2007-01-17 13:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your girlfriend then you'll forget about this other girl.
There's no harm in looking, even thinking about another person because you find them attractive but dumping someone your care about because of that is just wrong.
Think about it, if you have something really good right now, do you really want to give it up to risk being with someone who might make you totally unhappy?
2007-01-17 13:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her yet you are willing to dump her over someone because of their looks? I'd seriously consider wondering on if you really love your g/f or not. If you did, you wouldn't be thinking about breaking up with her ..... that other "hot" girl might reject you. Then what? Go crawling back to your ex?
2007-01-17 13:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men. Bah.
You are never satisfied with what you have. Always trolling for something "better."
If I were you, I'd break up and go with the new girl. Let us know how long this relationship lasts. See you next week??
2007-01-17 13:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh. You could have a hot fling with the new girl but if u love your gf y would u do that to her? i think u should wait it out instead of straying everytime u see a piece of meat.
2007-01-17 13:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋