I have recently moved in with my boyfriend and his "male" best friend. It is only temporary. Do you think its a good idea, anyone ever experienced this situation. What the worst that could happen??
2007-01-17 13:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm..thank god I'm not Dr. Luara..ha ha. There really is nothing wrong with this (other than the whole shacking up thing..BUT)
The worst that could happen is your boyfriend take sides with his BFF on issues that should only concern the two of you and privacy issues. If you are going to be serious wiht your boyfriend, then the BFF needs to be treated like a roommate. IE staying out of your bedroom, resepcting the tie on the doorknob rule (means your having sex..so don't bother us) and doesn't try to have his way wiht you. You also need to get chores in order. Because being the only female in the house means you're gonna be picking up nasty dirty socks from TWO men...so be careful..
2007-01-17 13:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a good idea in that it puts a wedge between him and his best friend- in that he is now splitting his home time with you and his best friend, where it was just those two before... So let him spend guy time, don't make it all about you!
It will make the best friend change his life a little- maybe- in that he will have to watch more what he wears around before getting ready to go, maybe what he says when joking with your boy, and there is a third in general, so expect a little tension...
Its not going to end up as a swinging orgy, so don't expect that- besides it might tear you two apart if it did...
Also, repect the best friend's choices and opinions on who he choses to date, unless he asks you specifically for yours, as he may or may not think you are the best choice based on his tastes...
So, respect the situation- you are the "new guy" in there- work on getting along with him and your boy, and enjoy what happens as much as you can until you can move out...
2007-01-17 21:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by worxsigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse that can happen is that you could all end up hating each other leaving you with no relationship and no where to live. That is assuming that none of you turns out to be an axe wielding psychopath ...
2007-01-17 21:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by zappafan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother moved into a house with 2 girls nuthing is wrong with that yes one was his gf and one was his ex they were best friends nothing went wrong so if that can work im sure it could work with you if its only temperary worst that could happen is your bf's best friend could walk in on you guys doin sumthin if you do that or you havein a shower so just keep doors locked at all times and things should go well good luck :D
2007-01-17 21:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by love_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be sleeping with bff within the week. Enjoy!
2007-01-17 21:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so lucky that is such a good idea. Good luck and best of wishes to you.
2007-01-17 21:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Katie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only bad if you make it that way,and the worse that could happen is you sleep with his bf
2007-01-17 21:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sharing the rent ??
2007-01-17 21:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋