HI I AM FROM NYC AND I AM 20 I AM STILL SAVING MYSLELF BUT NOT NESS FOR MARRIAGE MORE LIKE SACRED OF GETTING PREGEANT IS THAT A PROBLEM
2007-01-17 13:12:53 · 8 answers · asked by melissa f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not a problem. Pregnancy is scary and should be avoided at all costs. If you're not comfortable, then don't do it.
2007-01-17 13:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by fl_omicron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When, or if, you decide to have sex should be up to you. I didn't have sex until I was older also (I'm a male).
You could get pregnant. OR you could pick up a disease - som ewhich can be cured, some which will stay with you for a lifetime.
I used to say, it was just not worth the risk. Also, it seemed like a lot of people I knew ran into and out of relationships so quick, it was hard to keep up with who they were with this week/month.
Sadly, there are some people who just want to.....be the 1st person to have sex with a virgin so they can brag about it.
I waited a long time before I found my solemate. Good luck. We've now been married 22 years.
2007-01-17 21:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by John Hightower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that it is great that you have saved yourself. Most men that are worth a Damm will value you and your opinions more. The risk of contracting an STD are just as great or greater...
I would Wait for the right man . Not just someone to end your run with. I am surprised and Believe a little more in faith.
Good Luck in your life,and with all that you do..
2007-01-17 21:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Polar Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not a problem at all. You go girl!!!!!!! Make sure you lose it to someone you truly LOVE and i emphasie on love because you might think you are in love but really not. It ok to be scared of getting pregnant, all girls go through it but i hope when you do decide to have sex and or have a baby its with the one you love and still building your life with!!!!! be very careful he might look good on the outside but there are STD'S out there so be safe at all times.
2007-01-17 21:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by stacylesp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many contraceptives for you to use for hindering pregnancy. talk to your doctor. though nothing is 100% safe from preventing pregnancy and STD's. abstinence is full proof. Talk to your doctor about some options for preventing pregnancy. im a 23 year old virgin. join the club darlin
2007-01-17 21:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Wait until you are ready, because the world has enough people running around not caring if they get pregnant or not.
2007-01-17 21:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 if you can come down here I will initiate you and I promise to wear a condom.
2007-01-17 21:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by h4rmony 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IM MOVING TO NYC!
2points!
2007-01-17 21:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋