I've been wif my bf for >than 5 years. We'll be turning 24 this year. Obviously marriage is not in the picture yet.
In the past 5 years, we've been through lots of ups and downs. &Since D past 1 year, things had improve tremendously& of coz Im happy.
My parents knew of our relationship but not his-S his parents prefers him 2concerntrate more on his studies.He has recently pass out as an engineer and told me that he'll be introducing me to his parents in these 2 months time. I actually gave him 6 months from the day he pass out as an Engineer...yet...he decided to do it sooner than I think he would.
D problem here is that I have the insecurity of having a guy cheat on me. I get insecure whenever I see pretty girls around thinking, my bf might like them more than me. But most of my friends think that I am very pretty myself. I've been the nicest girlfriend I can possibly be.But at the back of my mind there's always the thought-what if the other girl is able to treat him just as nice?
2007-01-17 12:42:58 · 4 answers · asked by Aranel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel, I just got out of a relationship with one of the reasons being my insane jealousy... I know what it's like to not feel that you are good enough for the other person. My best advice is get a makeover or a manicure, etc. Something that will make you feel pretty yourself...
I think the main problem is that you have some self-confidence when it comes to relationships, it makes you suspicious of other people.
I would think that if you made yourself feel beautiful then you would have more self-confidence and probably radiate you confidence. He might notice this, and that should boost your confidence even more...
Hope I helped...
2007-01-17 12:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by oblong127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is wanting the other person to be happy. You are too insecure and needy to return any love. Everything you said here is just screaming "give me, give me". Keep dating, but don't get married until you can separate one bad relationship from this one.
2007-01-17 20:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that really a question, your fears are probably not true, so of course you should 'stay on'. Just try not to be jealous, come on...he cant like someone he doesn't know that well.
2007-01-17 20:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by nothingknower29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woooooow, you sound like an amazing girl. I'm sure he will stick by you and i don't know what you mean by 'on' but i'll say sure
2007-01-17 20:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋