ive known this guy since i was 11 and we've dated in between these times but it never works out between us so we decited to stay friends and recently he told me hes starting to like me again and then he told me he wanted to go out with me and i stalled it cuz i didnt wanna be harsh and say no but finally after all the stalling it had to come out and then he completly dissed me out and told me never to talk to him again.. i thought he would get over it so i imed him and he completly dissed me that beyach how dare he.. doesnt he care about the 8 years we've been together damnitt!!!!!
2007-01-17 12:40:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are actually a lot of normal guys out there. Pick one of them instead.
2007-01-17 12:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by FREEROB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the term 'dissed'...! or 'beyach' either.
My guess is that the second is a typing error(!), but you used 'dissed' twice, so I assume that one is correct.
A little (a modicum even!) of punctuation would have made this so much easier to read ~ and not had me 'guessing' along the way.
Anyhow, you asked, > doesnt he care about the 8 years we've been together <
Well, from your perspective, then the answer has to be 'No.' But on the other hand, clearly he reacted to your turning him down, and that must show some level of 'emotional connection' ~ which might be called 'care.'
However, his child-like reaction to being turned down does tend to suggest an emotional response that is juvenile to a situation where he is 'not getting what he wanted,' and likely contains something of an emotional blackmail - in that he probably knew just how you'd be upset as a response to him and his behaviour.
I was curious about > recently he told me hes starting to like me again and then told me he wanted to go out with me < ......'!'
So what was he doing between the previous time and the recent moment of revellation? Was he busy 'Not liking you'...! 'Resenting you' ...'hating you' or....!
I think your reactions to him have been 'good' for you, to not simply allow him control, as if these things were like a 'light switch' where he could decide what will be by throwing the switch.
Stick to your sense of what is healthy, for you.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2007-01-17 21:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk. Like my mom always says there is other fish in the sea.
2007-01-17 20:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by XoLipGlossoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u've crushed him. he poured out his heart and u made him feeling stomped on. it will take a long time for him to be able to talk to u w/ out the hurt feelings.
2007-01-17 21:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by kelly p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a 'relationship' with someone when you are playing house with them.
2007-01-17 20:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sweetie, you did not even want to be with him and if wants to throw you friendship away, he is not worth your time, effort, emotions. and feelings
2007-01-17 20:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by coastie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess your more attracted to him now lol .
2007-01-18 00:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell.......not difficult.
2007-01-17 21:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋