w have been dating for about a mounth, and she says that when shes comfortable with saying it she will, does that man anything ?
2007-01-17 12:33:51 · 28 answers · asked by Mr.X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People who "love" someone after a month have real issues. It's almost as bad as another couple I know who never said "I Love You" in 6 years of dating. Don't know which side is more pathetic.
2007-01-17 12:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that or maybe you are moving to fast for her. So when she is comfortable in saying it then she will, that is if yall stay together 4 a while. Some people fall inlove faster then other, and some people don't. Even though most of the time it is lust, well any way just wait till she is ready, and it PROBABLY not because she don't love you.
2007-01-17 12:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww don't sweat it, it's only been a month, she's just not ready yet. It doesn't mean that she doesn't love you, it just means that she might be a little nervous of committing... or maybe she's been hurt in the past, and is afraid of admitting that she's in love. Try not to read too much into what she says, if you stress too much, she'll pick up on the stressful vibe and will be completely uncomfortable around you. Chill out, and be patient. She'll say that she loves you soon :)
2007-01-17 12:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to have ignored something, yet i do not imagine there has ever been a set-in-stone definition of "love". If there became, poets (alongside with many writers and philosophers) might want to haven't any further something to do! relax. Love ability a lot of diverse issues to a lot of diverse human beings. Neither you nor absolutely everyone else has an actual definition of which feeling qualifies as "love" and which does no longer.
2016-10-15 09:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not ready yet. She wants to be honest with you and if she says that she's not ready....then she isn't. I'm sure she cares about you a lot. Wouldn't you hate it if she said "I love you" and she really didn't. She doesn't want to give you the wrong impression. You can't rush love but I'm sure she definitely will in time. One month isn't a very long time. Just admire her courage to be straight forward with you about her feelings no matter what they are. You're lucky to have a girlfriend who can be honest with herself and you too. Good luck!
2007-01-17 12:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your gf is just being honest with you. Love is a wonderful thing but not to be taken lightly. Give her time, give the relationship time and see where it goes. Enjoy the ride!
2007-01-17 12:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means piss off little man, maybe kids don't have any idea what love is yet.
Maybe she wants to finish school, not have your stinking child while she's still a child, have a future instead of calling your lazy butt each month to see if you're going to pay your child support.
Get a job, shut up, grow up, piss off, you're worthless!
2007-01-17 12:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you have only been dating for a month! Love does not usually happen in one month...give her some time!
2007-01-17 12:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Moosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means the words "I love you" actually have real meaning to her and she's not willing to just say it to please you. you should be happy about her maturity and the fact that she has some depth to her soul. Most people are so fake these days...Don't rush things! There is no time limit for these things, they just happen when they're supposed to and the feeling is right.
2007-01-17 12:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by CherBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she wants to take it slow. When my husband and I were dating it took him about 3 months to tell me he loved me.
We have now been married for 16 years.
2007-01-17 12:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mad Maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋