like a boy likes me at school and there is a boy i talk to but they both like me but i don't know what to do or which guy i go to
2007-01-17 12:32:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're way too young to be dealing with issues like this. Just enjoy your time with friends.
2007-01-17 12:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're 11. Hopefully you'll learn YOUNG that boys who communicate with you are highly desireable over those who don't.
In fact - how can a boy who doesn't talk to you like you? He doesn't even know you! I think he's basing his liking you on your looks alone - and that's not good..
I know when you are 11 there is not a lot to go on other than how the person looks. When asked why you like a boy, I'm sure your answer is very often "Because he's cute." But really - if you want to be a mature 11 - you'll think about what you have in common with these boys and whether or not they are nice to you AND if they are nice to the "not-so-cute" people at your school. Looks fade away - but "niceness" can last forever. Whether or not a person is nice is also more important when you are doing more than just saying hi in the hallway and announcing to the school that you're "going out" - and hanging out now and then. Now is as good a time as any to start thinking about the important traits in people. Ask yourself - if they are honest, and trustworthy, and kind. Cute really isn't that important.
Definitely - go with the one who talks to you.
2007-01-17 12:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be dating at 11. I mean just enjoy life and what exactly to these guys offer you ? You shouldn't think about dating until you have some money to go out and do something other then the allowance you get. 11 is not the appropriate age to start dating especially if you don't even know what you like.
2007-01-17 12:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't you think your to young to be liking boys. My daughter is 11 and she can have friends that are boys but she is to young to have a boyfriend. Hold back just be friends you have your whole life to have a boyfriend. Think about school right now thats the most important thing in you life right now. Good luck!
2007-01-17 12:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by gemini180180 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homework is important too. But school relationship makes school more fun.
I suggest that you pick who you really like. Not the one who really likes you. The one YOU like. And if you try talking to both you will get to seem to match up with the boy you like.
2007-01-17 12:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a great situation. But don't take advantage!!! Let them, for lack of better words, fight for you. Ask them questions and let them answer. Get to know both of them better and then decide (remember, look at their inner bueaties). When you decide let the other person down nicely and, most important, let the guy you let down know that you're okay if he still likes you, that you're not uncomfortalbe around him and that he shouldn't be angry at the other guy who won you over, and that you still wanna be friends.
2007-01-17 12:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE 11- You shouldn't be going out with either one of them. Stop thinking about boys and do your homework.
2007-01-17 12:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 11 you shouldn't be going out with ANY boy. Let me talk to your Mom or Dad...
2007-01-17 12:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if u know more about the guy who you talk to and like him you should go out with him but if u dont like him for whatever reason try it out with the other boy
2007-01-17 12:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by chicantabonita94 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to have a boyfriend. You should wait about 5 more years before you start dating. You should hang out with your girlfriends.
2007-01-17 12:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and leave both of them alone and focus on learning.
Some little cutie will come along one day and steal those boys from you, but no one can ever take away your education!!
Good luck! :)
2007-01-17 12:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋