There's this guy that I think that I would like if I got to know him but I don't know how to start a conversation. He's a grade behind me, I'm in 8th grade and he's in 7th, and I don't even know what his name is. He's in two of my classes, gym and health. I see him look at me some. Anyway, I'm kind of shy and want to know a way to start a conversation with him that doesn't sound dorky. If I talk to him it would be in gym. Thanks
2007-01-17 12:14:45 · 9 answers · asked by shortie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a guy not a monster, why are you so afraid to talk to him? You could start by introducing yourself to him. Younger dudes like hott older girls. So you've got points already, that you didn't even know about. If he's already looking at you, that means he likes you or wonders what you're thinking about him. Now's the time to tell him. Come on, woman up! Like totally!!!
2007-01-17 12:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it will sound dorky.some guyslike to go out with girls in upper classes like they like to brag so it wont be a problem(how old is he though) you need to ask a question like,so do you like this class or health better.you could bump into him or something ,you could even fin a way to be partners,girl your in the 8th grade woman up already tell him that he's cute BUT whatever you do dont go kindergarden and tell someone to do it for you!!!!!!!
2007-01-17 20:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by poisonbabe38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like. Hey, how's it going? And be like, "i'm so excited for _____(a sport coming up in ur school such a as basketball), aren't you!" or something. but it's all in the eyes. there's a trick my friend told me. You look the in the eye, slowly go down to their nose, then back at their eye, then to the lips, but kinda let yur eyes rest there, and then look back into the eyes. they get kinda confused, but kinda tranced to. it's awsum. works every time! ;) good luck
2007-01-17 20:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some cofindence girl and just go up to the boy. If your really shy then you need to write it down. You need to observe him(secretly) and see if you can find out anything about him. Just go up to him and say hi
2007-01-17 20:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by kaelovesu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here are some good other subjects to talk about
Films
Music
TV
Holidays
Hobbies
The News - Scandal and gossip stuff , not serious .
Work
Well known people.
But here are some good opening lines which really do work.
Do you know Jane/Sam? Or, better still :
How well do you know Jane/Sam?
Where's Jane tonight.?
I saw Jane/Sam last night. She/he told me all about you
How long have you known .... .
Someone told me you live near ....
Didn't I see you in ...... last week?
Didn't you used to work in .... .?
Didn't you used to go out with ....? .
I'd rather be ....
Who's your favorite ".... ?
What's it like in ..... .?
What's John Smith like to work for ?
Do you like ..... ?
Have you heard about ..... (Something that has happened today.)
How are you today? (1 know everybody says this anyway but it works well if you sound like you really mean it AND make her tell you!)
2007-01-17 20:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should take one of your friends along and go talk to him, that way you wont feel so volnurable and on the spot. Just go to him and ask "whats you name?" Just a random question. Should work
2007-01-17 20:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to look at him and SMILE. This will break the ice. Good luck.
2007-01-17 20:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww thats so cute....just kinda go up to him and say hi or if you guys have to make sports teams ask if he wants to be on your team or sumthin.....awwwww thats so cute again lol
2007-01-17 20:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by love_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could approach him with.....
"hi....what's your name?"
2007-01-17 20:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋