I personally couldn’t, because I’m a virgin saving myself for someone special, the only thing is that person would hardly be special if they slept around a lot, would they? Don't get me wrong I would be alright if they were in love with someone and slept with them, but not if they just slept around a lot for the hell of it.
2007-01-17 12:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the same time, though, you shouldn't hold that against them. I feel that's the very reason why most people never, ever meet their TRUE "soul mate" (if there really is such a thing).
Now, I understand what you're saying. But suppose the right guy for you is one of those guys (has been a "player" in the past). Would it really matter... as long as he STOPPED that behavior after meeting, or marrying, you? And treats you right? And loves you the way you deserve to be loved?
It's kind of the same thing for women who wouldn't give the "fry guy" at McDonald's the time of day because he's working a "crappy job" and couldn't afford to give her the Mercedes or big house she wants. You never know, that guy could be a really, really good guy on the inside.
As long as we continue to focus on outward appearances and/or shallow features, we'll always continue to be stuck with "Mrs. Wrong" or "Mr. Wrong."
Good luck with your search. In a perfect world you'll meet another virgin who will emotionally, financially, supportively, and in the relationship... be perfect for you.
2007-01-17 12:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by gabound75 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
even as i became between relationships I slept round, quite often because i did not have self assurance I should be compelled to be celibate because I hadn't found the right man or woman i became waiting to be in a courting with on the prompt. And sure, I continually used condoms. there are methods to make positive you're literally not getting an STD. besides the undeniable fact that, now that i'm in a courting (and any time i became in a unmarried), i do not sleep round. informal sex had its perks, yet I a lot choose being in a dedicated courting.
2016-11-25 00:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, it doesn't matter how many people you've slept with. Having sex with someone can be the most special or unspecial thing in the world. It is not only special if you love the person, not by a long shot! I was in a relationship with someone who I loved very much but the sex was terrible.
2007-01-17 12:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by AlleJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect, so the more a guy has "been around" the more he will know to teach you! Lots of people think of virginity as this special gift to be cherished and saved, I never felt that way. I mean, there's a first time a person stands up and learns to walk and the first time a baby eats solid food, and a first time a person has sex. It's just another learning process in growing up I think! No mystique in it to me, and it's so FUN and feels so GOOD physically and emotionally. And it's natural too.
2007-01-17 12:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you....I'm the same in that I'm waiting for someone special, marriage. Now if they changed from that kind of course of life (and not just for me) I might. But if it was a last minute or recently decide I might not.
2007-01-17 12:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Tomier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Sex is fun. Fair enough if you want to wait, its just not for me. Just because someone has had a few bed-partners beforehand doesn't mean they are not special to you, or you to them. As long as they weren't sleeping with anyone else while with me it wouldn't bother me.
2007-01-17 12:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Fitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because the risk of STDs are high. and plus that makes them seem like a ****/man whore. i don't care how sexy they are. but if they sleep around alot, then they must be a playa. unless they were year long relationships...i don't count anything less than 3 months a proper relationship. just sex and no love. what makes it different if they wanted to sleep with you.
2007-01-17 13:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 12:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, thats not the way to be mate,don't paint us all with the same brush, people out there may have reasons, like you have your reasons.
2007-01-17 12:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long ago it was. if it was 15 years ago yeah i would but if it was like 2 mouths most likely not.
2007-01-17 12:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋