my girlfriend and i broke up about 5 weeks ago. we have recently been talkin about getting back together. i have spilled my heart out to her, she keeps sayin i need time.....time she wants to go to columbus with her friend...go to N. Carolina to see her sis. i told her that why cant you do that if we were back together...not like im gonna try and go with her...she has allways had this thing...like she doesnt want to give into me or, agree...because its like she letting me win er sumthin......totaly confused how can i get her back
2007-01-17 12:01:57 · 10 answers · asked by xtreme21rr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her go.....the more you press it, the more she'll want nothing to do with you. unfortunately I know from experience.
2007-01-17 12:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has you wrapped around her little finger. I am going to tell you a secret about girls; they don't respect a guy that begs. If you want to be the man, you have to let this go. No matter how much it kills you, you have to act like your not bothered at all. I know you think it's a game and maybe it is but everyone plays it. Stop calling and asking. Let her come to you. If she doesn't then you know that you don't mean as much to her as you thought you did. I am not saying that you should be mean or unreasonable but just stop begging her. Just let it go and she will either come back or she won't. Either way you win.
2007-01-17 12:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's really not ready to be in a relationship. She doesn't want to feel like she's leaving you behind when she goes or like she's tied down and shouldn't go have fun. Let time run it's coarse i know it's hard because i left my boyfriend to give him time it's almost 2 months ago and he keeps telling me that he wants to get back together he just doesn't know when he'll be ready....good luck!
2007-01-17 12:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have a big problem with not wanting to hurt a guys feelings. They don't realize it's more hurtful to keep stringing you along. Find someone else, she doesn't want to get back with you.
2007-01-17 12:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she wants to be in a relationship with you anymore. Its her way of avoinding the issue. You are better off with someone else.
2007-01-17 12:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by megagirldonn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav ehtichs n u dont % to get bodily in contact, ten dont do!!! u shdnt do something which might embrass u!!!! take a seat n clarify him ur difficulty. he fairly likes u, ten he could understand n be with u!! if he doesnt understand ten, i think of u shd evaluate quitting him, coz in a realtinship information is of top value particularly than something, coz i alwz have self belief if my grl doesnt understand me, ten wats d use of she being my grl!!!!
2016-10-31 09:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-17 12:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to give her time until she tells you that she likes to get back with u!!!
2007-01-17 12:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
2007-01-17 12:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry AI was on what you say
2007-01-17 13:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋