I have been seeing a latin woman, and this week-end we plan to get intimate.She came from Mexico only 3 years ago so her english isn't very good. I find myself explaing thins I say to her all the time. My fear is, while we are being intimate, I may say or do something her culture says is inappropriate.I enjoy a full array of activities during love-making but I'm afraid I might try something out of bounds for her. Please help me to make this a wonderful weekend.
2007-01-17 11:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be up front with her and tell her that you don't fully understand the differences between your culture and hers and that you really like her and if you say something to offend her it is from ignorance not intent. Ask her to just let you know if something comes up not appropriate and you will not do it again.
2007-01-17 11:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa D F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, that first answer was kinda stupid. THEY made plans. He said that in the first sentence! Just go through it normal (nothing out of what a virgin couple would do). If you are truly worried about what may be offensive (i've always thought sex was just universally creative) but want to still have a few little "activities", you could just ask her if she wants to try it. You should be at least comfortable enough to do that.
2007-01-17 19:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her to tell you what she likes in bed. Or talk to her about what you like to do in the bed and if she says she doesn't like that then you know that is something you have to wait to try on her. But usually if you ask a lady during sex she will tell you what she wants you to do to her.
2007-01-17 19:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt you could say or do anything that could offend someone spanish in a sexual manner. she's probably more open than you are. everyone at my workplace all have that same open flirty attitude. actions don't really need an explanation in general. and if they do, have some translations ready - put them under a pillow or something.
2007-01-17 19:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE SHE MIGHT LIKE ALL THAT KINKI STUFF,SO JUST DO IWHATEVER TILL SHE SAYS"OK ESO NO ME LO AGAS PORQUE VA A DOLER POR ALLI CHICO"
2007-01-17 19:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping with her out of wedlock might be considered culturally unacceptable.
2007-01-17 19:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax be yourself and don't try to impress her enjoy and make sure she has a good time too.
good luck
2007-01-17 19:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by yeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Al you have to do is let her take the lead.She'll let you know what she wants and doesn't want.
2007-01-17 20:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋