Why i't to easy to give advice or say some opiniun, and when it comes to your self its kinda hard to make a decision..?
2007-01-17 11:44:55 · 20 answers · asked by the choosen1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must admit all answers are good and true.
Sometimes, we need to take a step back and become the outsider ourselves in order to review ourselves.
From there we can see the better and the worst of us, but to do this our minds must be clear and ready to listen and take opinions.
You can never see everything when you look into one mirror, sometimes you need two, to see the back of you, sometimes you need to turn to see the side of you and sometimes you need to take a step back and review it all, before you make any decisions to change your clothes... there is no difference. :)
2007-01-17 13:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean no harm home gurl. But you need to get your words right, and your point across better than that b/c I'm pretty sure no one can understand what you saying. Just want to give you some advice home gurl. Peace!
2007-01-17 19:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because giving advise to someone else does not have any direct consequences to your own life. That is why people so freely give it. And then you have the people who give their advise and opinion just so they can have the chance to say that they were right all along.
2007-01-17 19:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by luker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't taken the time to get to know who YOU are yet and then you're trying to be all the things anyone else wants you to be.
Get to know who You are then stand behind your own ideals. From those ideals that fit only you, you'll be able to do what's right for yourself. Others don't get to decide who you are!
2007-01-17 19:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its way easer to answer stuff for other people!but when it comes to you u neeed other opinos from others and it helps you make the right choice!
and its another side to follow along with why do you think we have frinds?? to try to say what well feel and try to help one another out with different opinions!
2007-01-17 19:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by lely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it has to do with you if you are giveing advice it does not pertain to you in any way. It's just something that may or maynot help someone.
2007-01-17 19:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by angels192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you judgement is clouded. Its always easier on the outside of a situation to dissect it but when you are in the situation its like your stupid.
2007-01-17 19:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by MZ.NEZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that we are so hard on our selfs I know that I tend to beat my self up at times we are our worse critic and sometimes don't know it. And have a certain degree of denial.
2007-01-17 19:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because its easier to see things as an outsider than seeing all the sides of the situation
2007-01-17 19:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by ToTaLlY iN lOvE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you're advising someone else you're not emotionally involved in the issue, and you don't have to live with the results.
2007-01-17 19:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋