I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and i feel like i get no respect. he constantly tells me im a stupid *****. or he'll tell me to go **** off and heres a direct quote from him i cant put his im in here but here it is "Kaylee **** you... Stop talking to me" he jsut said that to me online...i have no idea wat to do about him becuz he says he does care if i asked him if i broke up with him then when i say i will he doesnt care...idk what to do please help i cant deal with this emotional abuse!!! :'(
2007-01-17 11:40:53 · 19 answers · asked by simfreak07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop seeing him. You haven't been sold into slavery to him, have you?
2007-01-17 11:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is what you call "your boyfriend"? I wonder what you call your enemies? Are you that hard up desperate that you'll put up with that kind of abuse? No wonder why so many girls end up pregnant and dumped. You young ladies need to get your education and stop trying to have boyfriends. It's just plain stupid. I'm sorry to be so blunt. I'm a dad and have a daughter, I constantly tell her the facts and she's much better off because of the knowledge she has. Talk to your fathers and get your lives together.
2007-01-17 19:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't deal with it. No one has the right to talk to you that way. You have feelings just as he does. If he really cares for you he would be telling you he loves you not cussing you out. It's up to you to take this abuse. Don't let him make you feel that you can't get someone else because there are plenty of wonderful guys out there waiting for a beautiful person as yourself. Move on and find someone better. Remember love should never hurt.
2007-01-17 19:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Denese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Verbal abuse is still ABUSE! tell him that if he's going to treat you like crap then he doesn't deserve you! there are pleanty of other guys out there that won't make you feel inferior or stupid all of the time!!! dump him and find a real guy who will treat you like a princess!
2007-01-17 19:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by oct.10, 2009 <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f doesn't love you, you don't speak to people you love like that. He is posessive and controlling and you should dump him right now. The only reason he puts the charm on when you say anything about breaking up, he just doesn't want to see you with another man...so dump his ***...
2007-01-17 19:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kaylee, you hit the nail right on the head!
This guy's a loser AND an abuser!
You know you can do better than him, right.
Dump his royal **** and move on.
2007-01-17 19:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the loser, life is too short to waste time on a nowhere going, disrespecting, insecure a** like him. Life should be fun and enjoyable not degrading and regretful.
2007-01-17 19:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Connie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in your position. i would get rid of him. women deserve to be treated with respect. the boyfriend should be a fun, nice guy to be around with. and if your feelings are always hurting.then he is not the guy for you.take care
2007-01-17 19:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by stacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get rid of him soon as possible. he is definitely not the right guy for you if he is treating you this way. show him that you can get someone a whole lot better and someone who will treat you right. you don't deserve to be treated like that.
2007-01-17 19:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you that i know what is like to have a boyfriend like that and he did not say one rude thing to me but we get into fights and he gets mad and i am not going to take it any more and i would not be with him if he is going to yell and get mad at me
2007-01-18 11:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by betsywilcox_40371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋