ok so im just curious i really wana no how bad it hurts the first time cuz if it is gonna hurt to bad then im not gonna do it im talking about sex by the way
2007-01-17 11:34:21 · 25 answers · asked by leslie vaughn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until your married! Take iy from someone who lost their virginity at 13, its not worth it.
2007-01-17 11:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Keylas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew what you were talking about.
I've been with 3 virgins in my life and they all were different. They all said it hurt but it's really going to depend on how big the guy is. If you can get a guy that is a LITTLE smaller than most then start off small and build up from there but if it hurt all that bad, no one would ever be married. It will hurt at first and then it will ease up. It will also hurt the first few times but every time it will get better until there's no pain just pleasure.
Oh, the very first time expect blood. It comes from ripping the hymen and that's what causes the pain.
2007-01-17 11:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what anyone else says to you. It hurts like HELL!!!!!! I have been told by my friends, and i use that term loosely, that it is a good kind of hurt. Or, if you love the person then it will be wonderful. BS. It also depends on the size of the guy your seeing and the make-up of your body. And of course safe sex is the way to go. So, if you are ready to experience that then speak with your/a gynecologist first. Also, make sure you want to do it, if not it WILL hurt worse.
2007-01-17 11:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by The one who knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts tremendously bad!! It has been 14 years and I still have not forgotten that pain and I have also had a child, so I should know pain. You will also bleed a lot, I ruined 2 bed sheets, a pair of jeans and a towel, so be prepared. Don't do it until you are madly in love and married!!
2007-01-17 11:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by all_304 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant take someones opinion on here word for word, Different ppl will get different feelings. It really depends on how tight you are, and How big he is. and How rough it is, and how high your pain tolerance is. For me, it was painful, but the pain is a good feeling. It only really hurts like the day after it happened. but, the more you know the person you are doing it with, the better it will be.
=)
2007-01-17 11:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by InvisibleNinja09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts more if a guy punch you in the face.
it is nothing compare to childbirth...
i suggest a lot of lubricant, condom is a good idea because it has lubes on it...
if you try to go without condom the first time, it hurts like hell...
but you better do it quick, get through it quick...
by the 3rd time you ll be fine and might start to enjoy it.
2007-01-17 11:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful_Oddities 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you decide to do it as you call it - wait for the right person , if you are a female don't give it to anyone who's doing it just to have it - let it be done with care, with love - and if he cares about you he will make sure it a good experience- generally if care is applied it wont hurt
2007-01-17 11:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I didn't hurt me, but from experience that my freinds have had some say it hurts some say it doesnt. It just depends on your body
2007-01-17 11:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Chrystie26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it in the back first it doesnt hurt as much.
2007-01-17 11:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by rowdy7802 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts.
I'm not going to lie to you.
You will also feel like you are peeing fire for awhile.
My advice would be to wait as long as you can to make it special. Find someone who will think of you and be gentle.
Good luck, and I hope this helps. :)
2007-01-17 12:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋