My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months, I'm 18 and he is 20. We have been living together for the past 4 months or so..we are very much in love. We have liked each other since I was 14 and he was 16. He's an amazing guy..he's very sweet to me and he tries to make me happy. On the downside..he has pretty bad A.D.D and I've learned to deal with it on the most part. He does a lot of things that really bother me though..he ALWAYS goes to his friend's house almost every night, and doesn't ask me if I feel like going..he just tells me we're going. He works with his best friend as a plumber and when they get home from work, I'm usually at work so he just takes off with his friend and when I get home, he's not there. It really annoys me that he just takes off and does whatever he wants. I usually ***** at him for it and tell him it makes me upset, and he says he will stop, but he hasn't. Am I overreacting or is he in the wrong?
2007-01-17 11:26:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is in the wrong especially since you guys live together he should at least give you the courtesy to let you know where he is or if he is going out. I have the same problem with my bf he acts like it is okay for him to go out until 5:00 in the a.m but let me do it and he has a temper tantrum. Ask him if he would like it if the shoe was on the other foot. Or just one day not be there when he gets back from his friends house and see how he likes it.
2007-01-17 11:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man don't grow up. Sorry guys but it's true. No matter what you say or do they don't grow up! Us women have hormones problems we get mad and don't even know why! What I do is I usually leave when my hormones are acting up that way my man doesn't think am crazy or something. About your man I understand how you feel but you're both young and he still wants to act like if he's single. Usually the woman has to grow up and take care of things.. It sucks but that's life.. There's nothing you can really do to stop him from leaving. Word of advise don't do what he does it only gets worst. I did it and almost cost our marriage. Been married for almost 18 yrs and he still has NOT grown up!
2007-01-17 11:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by adi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 11:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋