I hated it but my boss said in order for me to get a raise i had to have sex with him! I did it and now hes talking about firing me because iwas late for the first time today! Is this fair?
2007-01-17 11:08:09 · 22 answers · asked by PASSIONS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he used you for sex...he used the raise as bait and is now trying to get rid of you.If I were you I'd take him to court or report him for sexual harassement.What a pig!
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2007-01-17 11:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is fair because no matter how bad you wanted this raise you should have not ever let this jerk tell you no such thing ,Honey this is not the way you make it to the top.If He fire you good,This job is not worth you putting your body on the line.Don't feel bad .Now you know,I know you are a bright person
2007-01-17 19:25:11
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If this really happened, he is most likely trying to get rid of you to avoid the possibility of being fired for having sex with an employee. Not to mention the potential for lawsuits.
He (and possibly the company) could suffer severely by your even mentioning the fact that you had sex with him while you are employed there, especially since you got a raise recently.
Basically, you got screwed, no matter how you look at it. Tell someone and your reputation is ruined. If you can show that he treated you unfairly, you could probably take him out, but it will likely cost you your reputation and possibly your job. You'd want to consult with an HR representative for your company, confidentially before you take action.
2007-01-17 19:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it isn't fair, my little gumdrop! But have you looked at this from HIS perspective? Maybe when you told him you were "late" he thought you meant it in a whole, other way!
When you fill out an employment application for your next job, where it says: "Reason for leaving last job?" Be circumspect about how you answer it! And specify during the interview that under NO circumstances will you ever take 'dictation' again!
Thank you, come again!
2007-01-17 19:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's personal choice. You either choose to have sex with someone or not. I don't like using the 'w' word to describe someone usually. But having sex with someone for a raise is really stupid.
2007-01-17 19:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by ahauntedhistory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have got something for proof to show he asked you for sex for a raise......Then you could have sued his company and put them in Bankruptcy....other then that that wasnt a good idea on your behalf
2007-01-17 19:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by MashDaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope you have some DNA and and throw it at his face.
"A ****** fire me and I'll sue your ***?"
You might as well get another job,be a stripper or porn actress, cause it seems like you'll do anything for money.
2007-01-17 19:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not fair but sounds like he only wanted to have sex and to him you were the lucky one no he has to fire you because you can blame him for sexual harassment
2007-01-17 19:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by babyboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit right away if he wants sex again and report him to the proper authority's
2007-01-17 19:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you lower yourself to this asshole. You are better than this quit & get a job where people respet you.
2007-01-17 19:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋