My boyfriend and i hold hands all the time at school. But sometimes he puts his arm around me. around my sholders.. waist.. whatever. am i supposed to put my arm around him too? it feels akward when i try! and i know it may seem like a stupied question but i dont want him to think i dont want to touch him. Arm around him too or hands down?
2007-01-17 10:59:20 · 11 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooh i put my arm around him today and he said it made him feel good! YAY! I felt uncomfortable but if he likes it..its worth it.
2007-01-18 09:53:54 · update #1
awww, this is cute!!! Just slip your arm around his waist, if he puts his arm around your waist then put your hand on the one that comes around the other side, and if he puts his hand in your back pocket....slap the sh*t out of him;) seroiusly though, just calm down and do what feels natural!!!
2007-01-17 11:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he puts his arm around your shoulders, put ur arm around his waist and when he puts his arm around your waist, gently place your hand on top of his
2007-01-17 11:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just cuz you two like each other so much. it will pass in time, but just give him a hug or something once, and it will get easier over time becasue the both of you will realize how much better it is to hug eachother than to stand apart lol :). he's not shy on msn because he doesnt have to talk to you face to face, its alot easeir online than person. just stick with it and like i said give him a hug sometime and it will go from there
2016-03-29 02:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to. If you want, when he puts his arm around your shoulders, you can put yours around his waist. Don't be so worried about protocol.
2007-01-17 11:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he puts his arm around your shoulder you could put your arm around his waist..depending on your heights..otherwise i wouldn't worry about it...maybe sometime just put your arm around his whatever first and see what he does ahahahah...
2007-01-17 11:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by kora_tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the man feel like he's in control!
hold hands together.
let him do the arm part.
2007-01-17 11:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can put your arm around his waist also.
2007-01-17 11:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arms around him because if you don't it will seem like for him and bystanders that you don't love him!
2007-01-17 11:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just lean into their body. It is kind of awkward but just go with your gut. you can put your arm around him too if it isn't an awkward position. but i'd just lean into him, to show him you care.
2007-01-17 11:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Caitie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should feel natural. If it doesnt then dont. Just hold his hand. I bet that lights up his world when you do. :)
2007-01-17 11:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋