Me and my gf of like almost year just broke up I think. Well first we decided to take a break and then you know things happened. After a while I was soo cluless that I had to ask her if she loved me. So I did ask her and she told me she doesn't feel the same as before. I guess I already knew the answer and I knew she would feel bad, so i told her its ok and i am fine with it. I mean of course I wasnt fine with it but I was in love with this girl and i didnt want to make her feel bad and i still love her. Soo from then we became friends i guess and we still talk every day. Soo one day i came across a question that said "if i loved anyone?" and i said yes a lot but it really doesnt matter. After this i got a message from my ex saying that me loving her does matter and she still likes me a lot and doesn't see herself with anyone else????
Now you ladies tell me wtf does this mean first no love then this i am confused out of my mind plese help?
2007-01-17 10:50:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she has said she loved me already and unless she was lying I am pretty damn sure she meant it soo its not that she is scared to say she loves me. But i still dont get it. She told me that she doesnt feel the same way cuz i acted all weird for a while and she thought i felt the same way. After i asked her the question "if she loved me" and after her answer she asked me how i felt and i told her i still loved her. She said oh and told me she thought i felt the same way. She tells me she misses me and wants to see me and all that stuff and i am just going crazy.
2007-01-17 11:00:53 · update #1
it means that she didn't know what she was talking about when u guys broke up but now she knows what she is missing.
Good luk
2007-01-17 10:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by volleyhottie11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what her problem is. Sounds to me more like she did like you when you asked but didn't want to be the one to make the first move to get back together and was more of wondering if you still felt that way about her. She probably always did love and always will love you. Love is a crazy thing. Sometimes you don't know what you have got until it's gone and you suddenly realize you let go of the best thing you ever had, and you want it back. Hope everything works out for you. Don't ask me why she did it. I may be a female, but I would have said it straight up when you asked. Good luck with everything...
2007-01-17 10:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that when she was with you she wasn't so sure about how she felt about you, maybe your relationship wasn't going too well, but now that she isn't with you she misses you. Sometimes when a relationship doesn't seem to be working, one can seem to lose the loving feelings as frustration or confusion or sadness kicks in. I don't know why you guys took a break, but from the last message she sent you it would seem to me as if she wants to get back together. Anyway, to be sure, you should just lay your cards on the table, and see if she wants to keep being friends or wants you back.
2007-01-17 11:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN!! You guys just don't understand us at all! She just wanted to see if you would stick around and to keep you guessing. We are strange breed, want to be loved, when we know we are, get scared and back off, have to be certain that the guy really, really means it before we can say it again. She loves you, let it go at that and love her back. Maybe buy her a present sometime! We like little surprises.
2007-01-17 11:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Linda W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly..I think she she might not have realized that she actualy did and was inlove ...the second her mind thought of u loving another her heart must have hit the ground..you made her knees weak...she didn't realize till the moment you claimed to love another...So she swallowed her pride and told you how she truely felt...Now you have to decide what you want..I say she deserves a second chance because you still love her.
2007-01-17 11:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all not all guys fall inlove quickly ..... you could of never been inlove a day in your life until u met that one girl .... i think that its messed up on her part for leading you on . see in my eyes wen us women / girls or wut ever the case may be ,wen we dont like a guy n.e more we know ... thats wen all the excuses come up . i suggest you just try to space out the freind ship u have with her now because if u still love her the more u see n talk to her the more its gona hurt . luck.
2007-01-17 11:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by bandolera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you but doesn't as much as you do. She may be just hanging on until she finds a new guy to be with. I know that can be mean but everyone does it and its never nice. I think you should just get over her and move on.
2007-01-17 10:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes for girlz or guyz it takes a while to "be in love" with the other person. Its not on a time limit it just sorta happens.
2007-01-17 10:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are good at mind games. Tell her you need to know what she wants from your relationship to be friends or something more. Your not a kid. Or you need to find someone who will look at you the way you look at her!
2007-01-17 10:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has completely happened to me yet some guy. i regarded it up in my acquaintances dream e book. curiously, on your targets, your ideas/subconsciousness is attempting to allow you be attentive to a minimum of something. once I regarded up my difficulty, which in all fairness reminiscent of yours, it in actuality advised me that my subconsciousness exchange into attempting to tell me that i actually exchange into into this guy, that i in no way precisely found out i enjoyed. i spent time with him greater, and that i stored dreaming approximately him. yet then after a mutually as of having the targets, it made me start to truly like this guy. i began flirting greater with him, without even noticing. finally he asked me out, and it exchange into the perfect relationship i've got ever been in. i'm not ensuring that it is going to likely be the right comparable result for you, yet im purely asserting i think of you ought to bypass with it! permit the targets you're having influence your definitely life slightly, and bypass with it. even perhaps ask her out, after that it is likewise possible to have a large relationship. if she says no, then dont permit it get you down. purely stay acquaintances, and ensure you permit her be attentive to that its ok, and you may nonetheless % to be acquaintances, and you dont % issues to be awkward. wish i helped and that i wish you have the comparable result i did! solid luck!
2016-10-31 09:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by alyson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋