Ive got a theory about women, what do you think?

Question

Women dont want to be outright asked for sex, they want to think the guy has other interests too or they will be personally offended. So then we as guys have to play this little phone tag/dating game for 5 days.

Why is it that your so offended by the requst? It obviously means were attracted to you, so whats the problem? Because even if we dont have chemistry and would never be able to be a couple because of it, it doesnt mean the sex will be bad. Am I right?

Answer 1

Yea, you've probably got something. Women don't want to give it up, usually, unless there's really something of a long lasting nature in it for them like financial security, a strong emotional connection, control, etc. As you've mentioned, anything less than this is demeaning to most women.

Most of the real women players get it when (and if) they want it and from whom they want it. Most women call the shots on this. No doubt, there are "studly-Moe" men players as well.

What's really baffling is when you like a gal so much that you give her whatever she wants anyway without even getting "any" because in the back of your mind you're hopeful that somewhere down the line you're going to win her over even though, in reality, your chances of winning the lottery would be much greater.

Forgive my crudeness and I pray that I'm not turned in for this, but my experience has always been that the power of the vagina is infinitesimally greater than that of the male penis. If I were the norm, I think somewhere down the road, at least from an evolutionary standpoint, the male penis would become extinct and would be replaced by a little tube-like mechanism for urinary purposes only. Sort of like the evolutionary fate of the little-toe.

Answer 2

Your theory is not wrong, but the interpretion might have to be corrected.

Women are more emotional creatures than men. What matters them most in a relationship is respect and comfort. When a man makes a straight proposal for sex, women are likely to be offended unless the relationship with the man is deep and mature. They fear becoming a mere object of desire and somehow an early proposal for sex from the man confirms them this very fear.

So, if you interprete your theory in this way, you will realize that women don't really try to act up when it comes to sex. They crave for physical intimacy just like men, only that they want to be desired for more than just sex.

Answer 3

Women (most) don't want to be used for sex, that's why it's offensive. They will only give it up for a guy if they feel their man truely loves them and they're in a relationship that is going somewhere. There's a word for a woman who just has casual sex - a ho.

If you're just playing a game to make a girl think that you are interested in her just so she'll give it up for you that's pathetic and that's a big reason why so many women hate men. It gives all men a bad name when there are actually some decent guys out there.

Answer 4

Your theory is right. Sex for women is more emotional then for men. You will meet some woman that want just a sexual relationship. I am happy that woman just won't jump in the sack with just anyone ecause they're hot. Could you imagine how may diseases everyone would have. Although I don't see why people get offended by someone asking for sex, I take it as a compliment.

Answer 5

sounds to me like ur wrong my brother

women don't want to be sex objects at all.

They want love. They don't want to be tricked into thinking that u are after something other than thier asss.

U really do need to be after something else.

And if u want sex with no chemistry, try a brothel, that will be great sex, and much quicker, only have to wait 5 mins for the loser in there to finish up, shouldn't take long. Read a mag r something, then ur turn will come.

5 min or 5 days, u choose, either way the sex will rock, cause it always des for men.

Hey even masterbation is great, but it does get boreing, same with real live sex.

So becarefull cause ur gonna end up looking at porn, rather than laying in bed with the woman u love.

Waking up in the morning with her at ur side, smelling her hair, and sweet perfume luxouriously mixed with the essence of clean linen

To me, that sounds much more pleasant than haveing to trick a girl to sleep with u.

**** man, i u actually look for the person inside all that deliscious meat, find the person, love that person, the one inside, then u'll be getting "inside" a hell of a lot more than u are now. And the girl that u found inside that meat will love u, cause she also likes ur meat, but, because women have this tendency to be wise cause they arn't governed by a second head, she is already looking for the little guy inside ur soul.

When each other and u will have a some aoutrageous sex man.

She'll be craving like a pornstar wants u to belive she is.

damn man
u missed the point

Am I right girls, or am I off my rocker???

Answer 6

You've got some testicular fortitude to categorize all women! I am nowhere near falling into that stereotype, I don't play games, I don't care if a guy just wants me for sex- half the time that's all he's good for anyways. So in your further so-called 'woman's studies', beware of who exactly your talking about. Although, it's much easier just to say, "Listen, I wanna bang you and nothing else." What you are really getting at is a communication breakdown- it's true, think about it.

Answer 7

It's a man's nature to feel physically attracted to a woman. They're naturally horney and think with the head that isn't visable. Women are more intellectual and some like being chased a bit. If you don't want to play the game, don't get involved.

If you feel sex is the 1st thing that's important before getting to know a woman, you're so dead wrong. I agree there should be chemistry. If I don't have anything in common with a guy, I'd surely wouldn't want to sleep with him. Makes me feel like a dirty cheap whore.

Answer 8

Your theory does have some truth to it. I think most women don't want to be seen as sex objects, they want more than that and find it offensive when that's all they get. And having chemistry might not exactly mean the sex will be bad, but when there is chemistry, it just makes the sex that much better!

Answer 9

Sex means something different to every person. Some people have sex regularly with different guys, but most girls always want to know that there's MORE than just a physical attraction. it's nice to know if you're attracted to us, but it's better to know there's some type of romantic emotional attraction as well. it really depends on the girl though. some women just like sex if they're in love or if there's sparks, and others are just flings and will have sex whenever with whoever.

Answer 10

I think you are right. I have always felt that our sex lives are pretty much determined by the society in which we live. Someone once said, "no kissing on the first date", so you were slutty if you did. Then it was "no putting out til a certain time", again, slutty if you did. I doubt it will happen in my life time, but I would like to see a society that was honest about sex, and were willing to admit that "most" of us, were not meant to be with one single person for our whole lives. Sex is a big issue in a relationship, and if you can't satisfy each other in the bedroom, chances are, your gonna fail in other areas. So have sex, with whomever you want, whenever you want. PLEASE - SAFE SEX - If more women were honest about it, I think they would admit when they see a good looking guy, or have met someone that they are attracted too, that they are also thinking sexual thoughts, but society has tried to make us "ladies", and has made us feel trashy for at least not pretending to be.