Well im feeling like my boyfriend really is just trying to ignore me, or when we talk he wants us to fight and so he can go where he wants to go, is this a sign of cheating or a sign of a break? plz i need your advice
2007-01-17 10:46:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a sign that the boy wants some space and wants you to stop being so clingy. Get the clue.
2007-01-17 10:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everytime u guys talk its just fighting, then there must be a really big communication problem. do u guys make up with a single kiss? u need to talk to him ask him whats up and does he need to take a break to think things through, many couples do that and im on a break right now because i had to sort out my feelings and so did my guy, and its better this way too. and u never know if he is cheating then he wouldnt have time for u, but make sure and try to find out. u could end up really hurt.good luck hope this helpsz!
2007-01-17 10:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling that something is up, I suggest the direct calm approach. Instead of guess work, just in case he might be going through something personal and cannot communicate this with you, how about this: tell him that you feel a little stressed out by how things are between you two at this time, and that you do not blame him, just would like to ask if he needs a little time out so you can both decide if this relationship is on the rocks. If he wants out he will take you up on that offer, and in that case, I suggest you move on. If his behaviour is non-related to you, he will try and work things out with you. In any case, both of you need to be in this equally and voluntarily, other wise, one sided love tends to dry up, no matter how hard you try to keep it alive,
good luck.
2007-01-17 10:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's both. He could be wanting to go out cheating and that's why he causes the fights. Do you two live together? If so, then yes definitely. That's his way of getting out of the house. He probably wants to break up with you, but doesn't want to be kicked out...he wants someplace he can call his home.
2007-01-17 10:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he does not have time for u than u should not have time for him. as ur boyfriend he should want to pay attention to u and do some of the things u want to as well. (there are lots of nice guys out ther who would be willing) maybe u 2 need a break so he can realize what he has
2007-01-17 11:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ross 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to relax and back off. Give the guy a break and let him be the one to call you. If it is time to break up then it will happen. Unfortunately your heart is already telling you what it is....follow it and remember there are more.
2007-01-17 10:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might not be news you want to hear, but from what your saying, its starting to look like your relationship is going downhill. When the other tries to start fights, and is ignoring you, its a bad sign. He might not know how to express himself, so he's taking the childish way out. Move on...
Good luck
2007-01-17 10:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by PK2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously he isnt a very good boyfriend and just doesnt want to hurt u by breaking up with u. it seems like he is trying to get u to break up with him first. Dont waist your time and energy. u will find someone who will care how u feel all the time.
2007-01-17 10:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he is done with you. I was in a LDR and my ex started to act the same way, claiming he was so busy. Maybe he was, but if he wanted to talk he could find the time to call. Especially in a LDR, he should be trying to keep in touch more to keep the connection alive. My ex didn't realize that his actions caused me to seriously rethink the relationship, which led to me ending it. When I did, he acted like he had no idea what was coming.
2016-05-24 01:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi really it means as friends your not seeing eye to eye anymore yess could be hes got other friends allso its just him putting him first before thinking of you now know matter if its another lady or not remmber if he can think of hes needs only so can you without telling him as well its like going out and doing your own cool things he dont answer to you so you dont have to as well and this is youe own life as well so be cool and do things that make you happy and if he dont wanna shere with you then thats hes loss as long as your happy.
2007-01-17 10:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋