i have a little "crush" on this guy and he emails me ............but about othe girls.............he thinks were just friends what should i do?
2007-01-17 10:37:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how u feel if he doesn;t feel the same then move on. Depending on how deep your feelings go for him is the level of difficulty it will be to move on. If u have a crush on him as in, 'Oh he's cute' then it shouldn't be that difficult beleive me crushes come and go but, if u have a crush on him as in he can make u laugh and smile it would probbaly be more difficult. If he does like u back then well hit it off.
2007-01-17 10:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several things you can do. Here goes...
1. Reverse the conversation, email him about other guys.
2. Be truthful. Tell him how you feel. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. (I need to take my own advice, LOL)
3. Maybe he's talking about other girls because he is trying to get a rise out of you and wants you to tell him how you feel. He might feel the same way you do.
You never know till you try. Good Luck Sweetie.
2007-01-17 18:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by GreenIce10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't talk to him about other girls. If that happened to me, I would pull back from the friendship a little bit. If you become one of his friends in this kind of way, you're one of the guys.
By pulling away a little maybe he will get a chance to see as a girl, instead of one of his buddies. I'm not saying to not be his friend, I am just saying try to avoid conversations about other girls he wants to talk about.
This happened to me one time, and the guy became interested because I wasn't "around" all of the time.
2007-01-17 18:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jenalyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be doing that to get a jealous reaction out of you. Chances are he wants more than friendship from you. Often we guys hide the truth of wanting a relationship behind the friendship masquerade.
2007-01-17 18:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be his friend. Ask him to have dinner to visit, or a drink. Get both of you away from the keyboard and face to face...see if a mutual attraction arises...good luck!
2007-01-17 18:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just thinking about other girls maybe he is not really ready for just one girl. If you don't care about him seeing other girls then by all means go for him.. Just tell him why talk to you about all the other girls.. Why not talk about you and him.
2007-01-17 18:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is to let him know...He could be mentioning other girls because he want to see your reaction to him liking another girl...He probably likes u too.
2007-01-17 18:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know but if he continues to talk to you about other girls then you have your answer.. Yep he only want's you as a friend.
2007-01-17 18:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by adi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him or find someone else. Quit being shy. Life is too short.
2007-01-17 18:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by MIKE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should tell him how you feel. It could be that he feels the same about you but is too shy to tell you.
2007-01-17 18:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anton Mathew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋