ok here is a little we have been friends since 9th grade he had a HUGE crush on me but never told me then in 11th grade he was talking to one of my friends and told her he really liked me so she told him to ask me out or at least start talking to me like you know how well he did and see i really liked him alot so may 16th he finally asked me out and i said YES i was so happy but see i was scared of somthing see i'm white and Tim is black and my parents are not happy with white's and blacks together so for 3 months we never told anyone then my parents found out and it was bad they kicked me out i went to stay with him for a week then they wanted me back so for the past year my parents have grown to love him and we have been dating for a year and a month what do you think will he ask me to in the next couple years??????? ok my boyfriend of ONE YEAR nd is going away to college it is only two hours away but he is playing football there so he will not be coming home every weekend
2007-01-17 10:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jaylynn's mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is definite at this point in time. Timothy and you have so much awaiting both of you in the future. Timothy has college and football to look forward to. He may be picked up by a pro team if he's lucky.
I assume you are a senior now and are preparing for graduation. You are probably on the college search phase if you haven't been accepted by now. Think about the new environment, the new challenges, the excitement of meeting lots of people, learning, adventures, and pure college fun!
Timothy will also be living this kind of life. Imagine the benefits of experiencing all of the above and returning to your home town, meeting Timothy and comparing notes with him? You'll have tons to share . . . BUT only if you allow yourselves the freedom to experience the future.
Basically, you'll hear 'If you're meant for each other, you'll end up together no matter what happens." I'll attest to this. So give yourselves a chance to grow separately . . . it's better than holding each other back.
I know this is probably not what you want to hear. I've been there and I KNOW THAT GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT!
2007-01-17 10:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really tough question, You have already survived prejudice ppl. you love seems real. I think if he does ask you to marry him it will be after he's through school & on his feet. Or I guess he could ask before he goes away & you'll have a long engagment. Either way best of luck.
2007-01-17 18:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy college and concentrate on getting good marks. Don`t rush marriage have fun... it can wait. People change alot from 16 to 24 so take it easy!Be careful.
2007-01-17 18:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships usually don't last. He will probably find a college girl,so no I don't think he will
2007-01-17 18:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i duno... dont get married straight out of high school after ur multiple question marks i lost you girl ...good luck.
2007-01-17 18:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There is too much baggage for this to work out.
2007-01-17 18:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your relatonship problems but its not my problem i am sick of people coming on here and asking does he/she ike me bla bla bla and i think other people are tired of it to!
2007-01-17 18:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Micheala 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not marriage time.
2007-01-17 18:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋