my fiance's father hates me and will be at our wedding.I'm not comfortable.My family is aware of the issue and is not happy either.I don't want a fight at my wedding but fear one due to his dad.
2007-01-17 10:31:20 · 6 answers · asked by rock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Honestly its your wedding day and you should get the day you dream of. There are alot of couples who have the same problem as you. Honestly your fiances father needs to be polite and not start problems that day, no matter what he feels. Have you and your fiance talked about this? Maybe your fiance should talk to his dad and let him know he will not tolerate his fathers unkind words at your wedding, or anytime for that matter.
2007-01-17 10:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let everyone know that you are happy with your mate. And that there is nothing they can do that will change that, and soon enough he will have to give up. And if you are worried bout it, try to talk to him before the wedding about it, there has to be a reason that he doesnt like you. So maybe you can get him to talk to you about it! And if he doesnt want to, then do not worry bout him. It is not him that you have to worry bout making happy for the rest of your life..But after all "inlaws" are the worst part of getting married..lol..Just get married and make you and your Fiance happy. That is your job. After all you are not marring the Father...
2007-01-17 10:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by jesssica m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your father in law hated you so much i dont think he would show up at the wedding. Try to work things out with him before the wedding. If not maybe he wants to make peace on your wedding day what better then that. Im sure he doesn't hate you. Just talk it out. Good Luck and congratulations on your wedding...me
2007-01-17 10:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by needanswers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SEE it as a challenge. All you have to do is be polite with him. You dont have to even communicate with the guy. Its sad that he hates you. Dont let that ruin one of the biggest days of your life. Its supposed to be a happy/joyous occasion.
See if you can get your fiances mother to talk to the father in at least being civil to you.
2007-01-17 10:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get through the wedding as best as you can, then steer clear of the man from then on. I have the same problem with some of my husband's family.
2007-01-17 11:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone can't be adult and thoughtful enough to be respectful to the fact that this is your day then in my opinion...none of them need to be there! It is your fiance's father so u have to respect that to a sense.
2007-01-17 12:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by LilsweetP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋