okay ive had this question for a longgg time.. okay lets say if my boyfriend broke up with me.. whats the best thing to do if i still like him... like should i act like im over him and hell come back or will he just get way over me too!!??? Or should i keep letting him know i love him.. or would it annoy him lol?
ive had this question alot of times before
2007-01-17 10:29:50 · 16 answers · asked by i love him. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this was an example... because ive had this question before. i have a boyfriend
2007-01-17 10:48:58 · update #1
personally id say go! go! go! but a girls mind might be different from a guy. go w/ ur heart
2007-01-17 10:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by conƒused-little-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay. thats has happened to me before to, and to tell you the truth im still with the same boy that did it lol. Heres what you should do. You just need to be patient and wait it out. Boys will hate it if they break up with you and you bug and pester him about it. Do not do that. Just be yourself and do your own thing. Sooner or later he will realize that he was an idiot for breaking up with you. This is what i did. When my boyfriend broke up with me, i just told him that if we come back to each other, then we were ment to be. If not, then we will go our own ways. And the next day, he wanted to go back out. So i would suggest some time apart from him. keep your distance for ahile. As the saying goes,"Absence makes the heart grow fonder". Which means staying away for alittle, will make him miss you even more.
I hope this helps. Good luck sweetie!!
2007-01-17 10:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. When you fake something to try to manipulate the situation, then when/if you get what you want, it's under false pretenses anyway. See? Not being honest in a relationship is a no-win situation.
I suggest you tell him you still have feelings for him. If he doesn't feel the same way and/or doesn't want to date you, then tell him that you intend to date other people (don't tell him that as a "threat", but just so that he won't be shocked when he sees you out with another guy). ***Most importantly, ask yourself why you would want to be with a guy who doesn't want to be with you!!!!! I'm sure there are plenty who would, right?
2007-01-17 10:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by blabla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to this song, it's one of my favorites. Very Sexy.
Lyrics by The Police So Lonely
Well someone told me yesterday
That when you throw your love away
You act as if you just don't care
You look as if you're going somewhere
But I just can't convince myself
I couldn't live with no one else
And I can only play that part
And sit and nurse my broken heart
So lonely
So lonely
So lonely
So lonely
Now no one's knocked upon my door
For a thousand years or more
All made up and nowhere to go
Welcome to this one man show
Just take a seat they're always free
No surprise no mystery
In this theatre that I call my soul
I always play the starring role
So lonely
So lonely
So lonely
So lonely
So lonely
2007-01-17 10:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Garret Tripp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure you will like this answer but if he broke up with you it is because he did not want to date you anymore. it doesn't matter if you still like him or how you act. He is over you and he broke up. Let it go. Why do you want someone who doesn't like you anyway? Find someone new who likes you for the good person that you are. When people walk out of your life let them go, it means it is time to move on. Think more of yourself that to chase him.
2007-01-17 10:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by healergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.act like your over him,but not too much eh,or he may just decide that he is better off with out you.You need to show this guy what he is missing by not being with you.by telling him that you love him at every opportunity,will just send him crazy.Just tell him the once ,and leave it at that.If he wants to get back together,he will.
2007-01-17 10:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep telling him he will be annoyed and knows if things don't workout he can always come back maybe for the wrong reasons. when it's over it's over walk away start a new life.
2007-01-17 10:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hold on lemme get my 2 year old sister to answer this jk... but as i have said millions of times before tell him and the best of the situation possible will most likely happen 1) you go back out w/ him or 2) u get over him......good luck.
2007-01-17 10:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a balancing act. You dont want him to think you still want him yet you dont want it to be obvious that you are hiding your true feelings. Act totally relaxed. Never let him see you sweat.The best revenge on an Ex is to show him/her that you moved on.
2007-01-17 10:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like your over him on the off chance he is actually over you. you tell him you love him too many times he will really put distance between you and him good luck girl i hope you get what you want.
2007-01-17 10:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over for a reason so don't act just do it "get over him and don't waste your time on something that is broken, which is your relationship..
2007-01-17 10:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋