ive been with my bf for over a year and a half now and our relationship is GREAT, but his phone got turned off and now he only calls me at night around like 7 which is not a big deal seeing that he has to use his friends phone you know, anyways what my problem is, that im upset because i miss him so much (he is away at college and so am i but were both 2 hours from eachother) so we dont see eachother all the much anymore, (everyother weekend he comes home to see me) but i miss him and its really hard for me to not talk to him i am sad what kind of advice can you give me to not be sad all the time about him not callin till 7 (please dont be rude i dont like people like that)
2007-01-17 10:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by Jaylynn's mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both have been through so much already in our relationship such has color issus between our families, school ect. things are really good tho we have worked together to have a strong relationship what i think im so sad about is im use to having him call me alot to tell me how his day is or ask me how mine is, and its just hard right now i love him more then life, and he feels the same way about me, he is my everything and im his everything were perfect together life with him is GREAT love him
2007-01-17 10:28:42 · update #1
try emails or instant messaging. to pass the time away, go out with girlfriends tot he movies or something.
2007-01-17 10:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey I don't really know what to say....I understand your feelings of sadness cuz you love this guy, just tell him....
Why did his phone get cut off anyhow? And were you calling him constantly before that? Just curious, I'm not able to say much because it's tough to know how he feels about you...maybe you should try and focus on your friends and what's going on in your world besides him....look on the bright side...at least you can still talk with him every day right?!! So what if it has to wait til after 7...and also, if he's comin to visit you every other weekend, that's pretty cool right? Focus on the good things, change is a constant in life, and the important thing to see about this is how you react to change in your relationship...if you play up how "clingy" you're comin across, it may turn him off. Make sure you have a variety of support, friends, family etc...this way not being able to talk with him so often won't phase you anymore...
2007-01-17 10:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you miss talking to him. Maybe you 2 can work out a way of seeing each other each weekend..2 hours is not so far. Or maybe see about going in together & getting cell phones where u can talk free. Just try to be patient if u can do neither of those things. I'm sure he is going thru the same thing missing you sweety.
2007-01-17 10:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is doing all he can. You could try to find him a new phone (people get rid of them all the time for new ones and some will even give you their old one) or you could write down all the things you want to tell him so when you do talk to him you won' t forget anything. it will keep your mind off of things. Try to find something to do to occupy your time until 7 so you won't think about it so much. Like try to get all of your homework done by 7 - like a game. Then you will be busy, your homework will be done and you won' t think about how much time is passing inbetween calls.
2007-01-17 10:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by healergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in other things. If you keep yourself busy time will pass by faster. Maybe you could join some kind of club or hang out with friends, anything that interests you.
2007-01-17 10:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should just focus on yourself and school. if this is really going to work out he will find a way to get a hold of u. there is only so much you can control so if doesn't work u have to live and learn. you are still young and have alot of life to live. keep yourself busy.
2007-01-17 10:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but this seems like small potatoes to me. The important thing is that he continues, at greater difficulty, to call you. It's reasonable to feel badly about this, but it's also reasonable to tell yourself to get over it. Life is full of little frustrations, and that is all this is.
2007-01-17 10:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sorry! that is really sad. but next time he calls say i miss you alot and maybe next time we could do something [if you get my drift] then just talk about it! go out with your other friends to take him off your mind and read a book or go to a movie...just have fun!!
2007-01-17 10:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Falling in Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should'nt be sad, be glad that he DOES make an effort to call you and now you can look foward to hearing his voice when he calls at 7.
2007-01-17 10:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by a1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a picture of him with you,e-mail,IM..
2007-01-17 10:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋