i dont love him like him but jis as a friend cuz most of the time he's nice a he is gorgeous but he gets high a lot before school and then hes really weird i dont know what to do cuz i dont want him to get into trouble and i think hes lucky none of the teachers have noticed anything ,i know he likes me he says it all the time and e-mails me and crap but when hes high he'll get all graby and touchy and it kinda freaks me out knowing the trouble he could get into so can u help me? no this isnt some kind a sick ass joke i hope u belive me
2007-01-17 10:08:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you need to find someone that you really like cuz it sounds like you like this guy but you can adapt to his bad habits and maybe you shouldn't since you are not into that type of thing. find someone for you who doesn't get high and can be on a natural high and respect you for u.
2007-01-17 10:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by lanice_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me,you don't want to get involved with anybody who is addicted to pot,because that what it is,an addiction.I went out with someone who smoked it ,all the time.Every time I saw him,the only thing he was int rested in was going to get some more,and when could he get some more.He was paranoid to a high degree and acted crazy,and uncontrollable at times,with a bad temper.I'm sure your parents would have something to say about him and what he is smoking!! He will end up getting caught and the teachers will notice sooner or later,when he is too high to even remember why he is at the school,and starts failing his exams cos he is on a downer. You can do better than that !
2007-01-17 18:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're not the only one who notices. Sooner or later school officials will catch up with him and you know the rest. When he's not "high" tell him that you'd like to remain his friend, but that if he continues smokin' you can't be. If you really mean something to him, he'll try giving it up. Pot's not habit-forming in the general sense, but maybe in his own way he feels less inhibited when high. You've got to set the guidelines for him in this relationship if you're not to fall victim to the same behavior or worse.
You're to be congratuated on your thinking here, girl. Don't change your ideals to fit his. It's a slippery slope he's travelling on.
2007-01-17 18:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his smoking is getting in the way u shouldnt mess w him. some people act really weird when their high. u said he gets all touchy and that kinda scares me cuz u never no how far u go. i honestly dont think tha weed is THAT bad(not about to go into that) but sometimes people get tired of it and start doing more dangerous drugs, so if it was me i would keep it on a friend level
2007-01-17 18:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by GaMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he's talking to you in the clear, tell him you like him but it's either the weed or you because you can't hang with him the way he is when he's tokin' So if he really likes you enough to put down the blunt you'll know it. After all it's not like you get (chemically) addicted to pot... it's just a recrteational habit and he should be able to set it aside if he wants to be with you.
2007-01-17 18:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay maybe if u really like him n worry about him than maybe u should ask him about it an talk 2 him bcoz if he really liked u he'd do n~e~thing 4 u or at least try 2 stop it hope everything works out okay!
2007-01-17 18:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...I was in the same place that you are in now a few months ago..and let me tell you DONT GO THERE..I made that mistake..and it screwed my life up..I didnt get on pot or drink or anything like that..but I started to love him..and when my parents found out I was forced not to talk to him..and it tore my heart apart..so for the sake of your heart..i wouldnt go there..
2007-01-17 18:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think one day, when he's NOT high, tell him about your problem with it. If he's not willing to try and stop, then he's not worth your friendship. You can't continue being friends with someone who does things like that, You never know how far he will go.
2007-01-17 18:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Alannah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get high
2007-01-17 18:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
UM...HE'S A VERY GOOD CHOICE FOR YOU TO HAVE AS MORE THAN A FRIEND!!! IF YOU ONLY LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND THEN LET HIM KNOW!!! IT NORMAL TO FEEL WORRIED ABOUT HIM CUZ HE'S YOUR FRIEND, BUT HE KNOWS WHAT KIND OF RISKS HE'S TAKIN BY BEIN HIGH AT SCHOOL!!! DONT WORRY I BELIEVE YOU!!!
2007-01-17 18:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋