How do I solve this erection problem?

Question

I have a female friend whom im not dating yet, although everytime we get close to each other, i always get a erection esp. whenever i sit next to her and it gets big. It climaxed whenever we both went iceskating, and while we were holding hands my erection jumped up again right in front of all the people and children who were there, and i was seen holding hands and iceskating with a girl while having a huge protrusion at the same time. What should i do?

Answer 1

Yea I get the same way too when I'm with a girl. Holding their hand, hugging them ,etc.

Sometimes though, erections happen at the weirdest times. For example, someone is sitting in math class, taking a test, and all of a sudden he has a hard on. Turned on by algebra? Not likely. What he has is a spontaneous erection — the erectile tissue has simply relaxed without sexual arousal. Spontaneous erections seem to just pop up for no reason at all. And that can feel pretty embarrassing.

It will go away pretty quickly if you ignore it. You can sing a song in your head, or try to say the alphabet backward to get your mind off of it. Or try to think about anything that isn't at all arousing. This happens to a lot of teenagers, because your hormones are all over the place.

Don't worry — spontaneous erections happen less and less frequently as you get older. They also seem to happen less frequently for men who have recently ejaculated by masturbating or by having sex with a partner.

Answer 2

You do not have an erection problem. Your body is working perfectly well and responding the way nature intended it to. You have a sexual hangup or embarrassment problem, due to your natural sexual response. Why are you embarrassed? Does your girlfriend notice or comment on the bulge in your pants? There are over a million high school & college guys with the same bulge every night in the USA alone, so you are not the only one with your supposed problem. As time goes by, you may become more relaxed in your girl's presence, but if you are kissing & embracing, expect your body to respond. Be happy that you have a girlfriend and that your equipment works, because there are guys out there with no girls and limp noodles. You do not have a problem.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Well, try to keep it tucked in as much as possible especially when you notice that it is getting hard. I think you are meant for this girl. My boyfriend still gets a hard on all the time even when we hold hands and we have been together for 3 years! I think it is great.

Answer 5

That happened to me. My hot friend that's a girl sat in my lap, and I got an erection. But I agree with 1980. Rub one out before you go out.

Answer 6

One of the trials of puberty, happens to most guys. Take the advise given on self-gratification, that may help some.

Answer 7

Well, when a guy gets an erection that lasts more than 4 hours he's supposed to go to the hospital so that the dctors can slice open his penis and drain the blood out before his bladder bursts from being blocked off. You could try cutting it and blood letting!

Answer 8

Take matters in your own hands before socializing with her. If opportunity knocks later, she seemingly excites you enough for you to be able to oblige. Wear relaxed fit trousers just in case.

Answer 9

First you have to learn how to control yourself or else everytime she breathes on you your going to explode. Just think of other things when she's around. You are just too excited. Take deep breathes and divert your mind.

Answer 10

think about ur mother, and if that doesn't do the trick, then seek medical help, and counsling for thinking about ur mother that way.