I haven't been dating much in the past few years, and now I'm with a very special girl. I think the relationship may lead to sex soon, but I'm nervous as I've only been with one other girl and it was years ago. I want the experience to be gratifying to her, but I don't know if I'll be any good :(
What are some things I should be sure to do to help her climax? I know foreplay is important, but what else? I really need some help!
2007-01-17 10:06:54 · 13 answers · asked by Mike D! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RELAX and find out by her breathing what feels good. Don't try to play her like a slot machine. Most of it is in her head anyway and if she feels sexy and you make her feel sexy it'll happen. There's no magic button - all women are different. BTW - let's pray for the dude that said women don't c**. he obvioulsy has no clue.
2007-01-17 10:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss, and caress and lick her all over, very tenderly and slowly. Foreplay is more important than getting to orgasm. It's the fun of getting there that counts. Go slow and make it last as long as you possibly can. Especially any oral play you give her.
'Listen' to what her body is telling you through touch and body language, but more importantly verbally tell her that you want HER to communicate to you what feels good and what doesn't.
Tell her she is beautiful, tell her she has beautiful breasts and beautiful other parts. When you're both completely spent don't roll over and go to sleep. Hold her and talk to her while you caress her body some more. Good Luck!
If it has been THAT long for you then you should try to get her to orgasm before you even think about penetration, unless you are superman and you can hold an erection for a looooooong time.
2007-01-17 10:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for thinking first of her!
Because foreplay is not just a time right before having intercourse, you need to be aware that we women like to be "wooed". This being the case, begin your foreplay in the morning with a phonecall saying you just wanted her voice to be the first one your heard today. During that conversation, test the waters by telling her that you've been dreaming all night about her. You might further "tease" with some of the details of your delightful dream. If it's at all possible, touch bases with her again before your next meeting. This time, add to your dream (that you JUST remembered!). When you do get to see her, bring her One (1) red rose with a card that reads: I kissed this beautiful flower because its petals were as soft as your lips..." You shouldn't have much trouble with the rest, but if you've got a temporary problem with premature ejaculation, masturbate before you go to see her. Foreplay begins way before most of you men know it. We women want to "feel" that loving feeling all day so that we can express it at night. Hope this helps & Happy Times together!
2007-01-17 10:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 03:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow. Remember to pay attention to the clit because that's has most women climax. She'll tell you what she wants and how she wants it. Kiss and nibble during sex as while as foreplay.
2007-01-17 10:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by flowerintherain02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 10:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by LivexYourxLifex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Missionary is the best position to achieve a female orgasm....listen to how she moans and the sound of her breathing...also if she starts to clinch her feet or legs...she's loving it.
2007-01-17 10:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by a1980 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
plain and simple,show her you care. you show her that her needs come first,and the feeling will come back around to you.
2007-01-20 15:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One word: ORAL !!!!!! Failing that prepare to get a cramp in your fingers ;-)
2007-01-17 10:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go down on her, my last girlfriend loved and I am sure she misses it now.
2007-01-17 10:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by michael h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋