there is this really shy guy that i've been crushing on all year. we never really talk...well, once online, and once because his friend was trying to hook us up for me...but he really doesn't talk to many people except his close friends. i catch him glancing my way every once in a while...but i probably do it more... tehe! he holds the door for me sometimes, he's in a few of my classes and homeroom...but we never talk...he knows i like him, his friend told him, but he didn't show up to the dance he said he'd dance with me at...the next day he sent his friend to ask me if i hated him...if he glances at me sometimes, but didn't show up to the dance for no other reason than that he didn't feel like it, but still cared enough to ask if i hated him...does he like me? did he really want to dance with me?
2007-01-17 10:02:07 · 25 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, you already know the guy is really shy. I can probably guess the reason why he didn't go to the dance...he didn't want to be embarrassed! A guy like that, I can tell you now...won't be one of those guys running out in the middle of the dance floor to bust a move all 70's style and whatnot.
It sounds like he does like you, but has probably never been in that situation before. I think the best you can do is just go up to him and talk to him. About anything, the whackier the better. Like maybe go up to him and ask him about some sort of obscure kung-fu grip...or ask him if he prefers chickfilet sandwiches over Carls Jr. spicy chicken sandwiches. At least you'll break the ice, and he can feel a little more comfortable around you.
Take a chance young grasshopper, throw out your game and see what you reel in...
2007-01-17 10:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by allthree 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are just really shy. You'll have to take matters into your own hands and get him off by himself, and talk to him, ask him out perhaps. Or if he is really shy, go out as a group of 4 or 6 people, and have some fun, shy guys are more comfortable in small groups, the dance crowd may have been too much for him to handle. Since you know his friend, try and arrange the small group get-together, will get you a better chance at talking to him and him talking to you.
2007-01-17 10:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have learned through experience that you have to sometimes cut the middle-man (the go between friend you're speaking of) out. You really should talk to him yourself. Ask him if he wants to study, or sit next to you in lunch, or come over - Just make some type of conversation.
You will regret not talking to him later on in your life when you both become more self confident.
2007-01-17 10:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jada C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have learned through experience that you have to sometimes cut the middle-man (the go between friend you're speaking of) out. You really should talk to him yourself. Ask him if he wants to study, or sit next to you in lunch, or come over - Just make some type of conversation.
You will regret not talking to him later on in your life when you both become more self confident.
2007-01-17 10:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Andyzp 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not a guy, but I have experience in life. It sounds like he DOES like you, he just has cold feet. HE sounds extremely shy. Maybe you should make the first move. Ask him if he wants to go out sometime. Good luck to you!
2007-01-17 10:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry....if you're not too old. Maybe he likes you too, but he has the same problem you do: shy, and doesn't know what to do! Maybe you might need to give a few hints. Wear really intresting clothes. Call him stuff like "honey". Be really cool about it.
2007-01-17 10:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sunset :]] 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi i say yess he likes you but sometimes its hard to be open about one's own feelings,the cool; thing is keep on being hes friend as your doing just now is right all great things to come start out as friends so just be you, if he reallly likes you to thats up to him to tell to say show it is hes own ways carnt push him cose he mite shy away but be a good friend as let things happen from there and see in time because thats giving your friendship every chance .
2007-01-17 10:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If hes like me, he's a loner-virtually unaccustomed to the "politics" of conversing with new people-he might be wrestling with some emotional baggage, way to heavy for his age..
2007-01-17 10:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Dustpan1987 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy must be stoic (like, u can't really tell what their thinking) -- but in a good way. no wonder you can't get inside his head. anyway, he probably does like you a little so make sure that he knows you're not like creepy-crazy about him; that way, he could feel more comfortable around you. it's all smooth sailing from there.
2007-01-17 10:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by That one guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Adore" is an old fashioned term of affection. You don't hear it that often anymore, which is a shame... Adoring someone is a form of admiration. It is a little stronger than saying that you are cute. Used in a sentence...... "I simply adore that little kitten!" "Don't you just adore this necklace? It's so unique." "That kid is ADORable" ("adorable" is a form of "adore". It's usually used when describing things that are cute).
2016-05-24 01:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Trudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋