One of my best friends broke up with her bf(another one of my best friends) a month ago, and he admitted to me that he likes me. He is such an amazing guy, he's sweet, kind, considerate, respectful of women, and he really cares about what I have to say. I know he's not just doing this to get with me bacause I've known him for a long time and this is his personality. He treated his ex like a princess and she dumped him for a fling with an older guy, and I know he deserves better than that. I'm just afraid that if I do decide to date him it would be wrong. She is such a ***** to him and keeps trying to make his life miserable because she messed up, and I can't help but think that if she wants to be that way then she doesn't deserve my consideration and I should just say yes to him. She is constantly flirting with other guys in front of him to try to make him jealous just because she likes to see him squirm. Is is wrong to like him even under these circumstances???
2007-01-17 09:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by badhair92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its always a big no to date your friend's exes. I would wait for her to be in another relationship before breaking the news. Analyze who your better friends with. This girl sounds like a crazy *****. And if it's the case date your friend who knows you could be the perfect match for eachother. Don't be surprised if you lose a friend over this.
2007-01-17 09:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by KT! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know that this is wrong you dont need advice to see it. if the guy was not your best friend, never in your life and it was just any random guy that she knew before she met you, would you even consider dating him. Think about this is she really your friend, and would you consider ending your REAL friendship with her for this guy. because that is what is going to happen. Now I maybe wrong, if you see marriage in your future then go for it. Most of the times bestfriends do the same thing as boyfriends except the sex thing. Is that what you really want from him.
2007-01-17 09:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by kissncuti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Attraction is funny in that sometimes, it just happens to be with a person who you didn't expect. (in this case, your best friend's ex) He does deserve someone who's going to treat him with respect. Everyone deserves that much. It's not wrong to like him at all. But I suggest you talk to the girl about the way she treats him. Tell her what you think about it. ( no you don't have to tell her how you feel for him). And as much as it sucks, you're going to have to play a slight waiting game. Tell him you're interested too, but you don't want to mess things up between you and your friend. Tell him that if he really wants to be with you, he'll wait. And there, you'll discover what to do.
2007-01-17 09:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he kiss you. Did he %. up a sign that made him think of you have been fascinated. And to call him a jerk and overlook approximately him and manage him terrible using fact he became right into a foul kisser and you probably did no longer choose him to kiss you. provide me a wreck. sometime karma will chew you interior the ***. And specific you're incorrect, way incorrect.
2017-01-01 07:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by valaria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iif she is your BEST friend i would ask her if it was alright if you dated him. She may not care she could be into this new guy. If she's just a GOOD friend i would tell her your plan to date the guy and that she had had her chance now you want yours
2007-01-17 09:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She soo lost her rights to him by dumping/treating him that way. If you're gonna treat him better which is obvious that you will - then by all means, do it.
2007-01-17 09:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by full_scale_havoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She threw him away.Dont miss a chance for you to be happy.You said she was a bit ch to him.
2007-01-17 09:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's trite, but true. All is fair in love and war. Enjoy.
2007-01-17 09:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's old news; time for her to move on and time for you to do your thing. Peace.
2007-01-17 09:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by justmyinput 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All's fair in love and war.
Walk up to him, look deep in his eyes, and say:
"Come and get your love!"
2007-01-17 09:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by infobrokernate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋