hey I'm 14 and i am slightly overweight. There is a girl i like at my school, but i don't know how to "woo her over" (i can't think how to put it any other way) any suggestions?
2007-01-17 09:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by nabxf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't even go there. don't try to MAKE someone like you. It's a false like and anything false (when it comes to relationships) is not good.
There are plenty of girls out there and one of them (if not more) has your name tattooed on their heart, they and you just don't know it yet. I too was a little over weight when I was in school and don't let anyone tell you that you won't be able to find a girl. I've known guys that were twice my size who were asked out by girls and they even got married. You don't have to be a body builder to get girls. Be patient and in time it will come to be. It's the nature of everything.
2007-01-17 11:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age mate you wouldnt get that "golden girl" who loves you for who you are...
this part of your life (teen) is probably the most sucked! girls (and guys!) are totatally into looks and hot dates...
maturity kicks in in your 20's, this time you will find people who are already sure about who they are. they will date you if they found you lovely no matter what shape you are...
at 14...i suggest you get more active, do a lot of sport, eat right
(i hardly know teen that eats healthy), and be healthy.
hold on to your honesty, looks can be moulded but a good heart is hard to come by...
(this is from a woman who are shunned for her weight by daters in her teen life, but had a blast in dating scene in college days just by loosing just a little of that overweight look. and able to excell in other potential she had).
good luck!
2007-01-17 17:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful_Oddities 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was totally undateable til I lost 30 lbs...At your age, all her friends will be like why are you dating a fatty, but dont worry when you get older, after all those years of being psychological abused and at 300 lbs, you can always rent movies if you need a girl...
2007-01-17 17:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all there's nothing wrong with slightly overweight guys!! Actually I tend to like them more than other guys!! Second of all be yourself!!
2007-01-17 17:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dont like u b/c ur over weight then shes crazy i like and liked guys who r over weight and im like 90 pounds and 13 ya i no skinny but i like guys who r a lil bigger than averge i like its cute that some guys still have baby fat on ther cheaks its soooooooooooo cute and all u really need 2 do is ask her out if u havnt done so if u have move on it helps but dont get all upset bout it if she says no stay the way u r be sides i bet ur cute God bless
2007-01-17 17:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by ashley h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loose some weight go to the gym, as it Willl really boost your self esteem, and make u feel more secure about yourself. and when u feel good about yourself, she wil see a person who is self confident, and will be more attracted to u than if u are feeling bad about your looks because of the extra weight.
2007-01-17 17:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't try to loose weight to get a girl, i have dated a couple of chubby guys it really isn't an issue be yourself, have confidence that is the most attractive thing in a man x
2007-01-17 17:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mummy of Two♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show her your sweet side. Offer to pay for her lunch and ask if you can sit together. Be her friend first. Then try to get her to go out on a 'real' date.
2007-01-17 17:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by KT! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if your pudgy. Be really nice to everybody, pick up stuff if people drop it, say please and thank you and excuse me, and pay attention in class. If you pass her make eye contact and say hi. I would be wooed by now. Go get em.
2007-01-17 17:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one is u can be ur self and not be someone else or two is u can loose weight or then there's three u can be someone totally different and she probably won't like u tht way but i would go wit number one just cause i would rather be myself! c ya
2007-01-17 17:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋