the first time i had sex with a guy, he was not a virgin, but i was. before we had sex he knew i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex he did not talk much, but he was very gentle, and when i asked him if he was wearing a condom..he let me feel to make sure he was. the second time he says to me "you said you were a virgin right"...but he remembered the other night that we had sex. the second time he treated me like it was my first time. he was really caring, and helped me physically and constantly asked me if i was alright, and he told me to tell him when to stop and when it hurt.
why was he like this? and why did he ask me again if i was a virgin, when he knew already?
2007-01-17 09:19:21 · 10 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he really liked you and feels really good about taking that from you but wants to reassure himself you are not lying to him.
2007-01-17 09:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M not sure why he asked you again if you were that's were .. but the first time y'all did it .. he took it gentle cuz it was your first time .. and stuff .. the second time ... he was still taking it easy since your still tight.. and he didn't want to hurt you .. if you feel wired about it hun.. talk to him .. he seem like a sweet guy to care about you and to make sure he was not hurting you ..
2007-01-17 17:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay are u sure this guy is liek a boyfriend u love and trust?? becuase if not them u should be careful.....since why would he forget..that u are a virgin,...but the fact that he is asking u if u are ok that shows he cares. which is a good hting. and maybe he thought the second time would hurt too since its onyl ur second time!
2007-01-17 17:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked and did that and stuff because the first time isn't the only time it hurts for some girls/women who just lost their virginity. It hurt for me for a while afterward. He was probably just making sure.
2007-01-17 17:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got you mixed up with someone else. Either that or if it was only your second time he still needs to be careful.
2007-01-17 17:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was like that because he really likes you. And I wish I could help you with the second question, sorry if that didn't help.
2007-01-17 17:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by firefreckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because u did u soo good
2007-01-17 17:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was tryin to make u comfortable.
2007-01-17 17:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thank-full
2007-01-17 17:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by yessy yes no 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk maybe he tought u didnt like it the first time
2007-01-17 17:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by mimi a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋