how to flirt innocently but a little more sexy flirty??

Question

i like this guy at school. but i don't wanna talk to him. and plz don't say just talk to him. i am shy to just talk to ppl randomly. i wanna flirt with him. so far, i have tried looking at him, and when he sees me hold the eyes for 2-3 secs, then look away. but i know that can be creepy..so any ideas to get him to really notice me? not too obvious, but u can figure out kinda way...?

Answer 1

try looking into his eyes a little longer and give him a little smile. u dont need to show ur teeth or grin frum ear to ear., a little smile will do .
do u talk to any of his friends? if u do ,try to find out wat kind of girl he likes. dont ask in those same words , dont make it seem obvious believe it or not that will work , its actually wat i do and yes im kinda shy (very)
if u dont talk to any of his friends, hey just be yourself, if he doesnt like u for u ....................he aint worth it honey

Answer 2

I know you said not to talk to him but i'm just going to put some tips on how you can start doing it.

1. Whenever you pass him look at him in the eyes and say "hi" once or twice a day. Very simple all it is is a hi and you walk away.
2. Figure out how you can talk in a group while he is there. Your not talking at him directly, but as a group so it's easier to chat a little with him

That's all I have really... The eyes thing is fine, it's not creepy. After you talk a little with him with 1 and 2 you might find it easier to walk up to him and chat with him alone and eventually ask him out or him ask you out!

Good luck

Answer 3

Smile when you make eye contact, maybe play with your hair some. I know you'd prefer not to talk, but it would really help. Just start by saying "hi" when you walk by him and after you become comfortable doing that work up to ask how his day is going or talking about something you both have in common (a class, a new school policy, an event that's coming up, etc.) or compliment him on something he's done or on something he is wearing (don't just say that his hat looks good, say it looks good *on him*). On one hand you don't want to pursue him (that's his job to pursue you if he's interested), but on the other hand you want to show up on his radar you know? Just take it easy, flash a smile, say "hi," work your way up to being comfortable around him. If he doesn't respond well or just isn't into you, you still took the risk and can be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there.

Answer 4

ok me + u = same situation. there is this guy in mi clase de espanol but i sit in the back of the classroom while he in the front. the isles are extremely narrow so when i pass him its really hard to smile at him becuase i would be like 2inches away. I catch him looking in my direction every now and then becuase he "stretches" one way and looks at me and then quickly goes back. there isnt really a way to just talk to him, becuase i want a formal introduction/convo, not a stupid shy deal like comlimenting him quietly. I see this guy so much in the hallways so its seems like i should be friends with him, but o well. Maybe smiling shyly when u make eye contact, or stand near him alot but not stalker a lot...i dont know im sorry i was no help at all. good luck sista

Answer 5

all of us flirt for distinct motives. The organic flirt without purpose of accomplishing an effect is kind of a celebration of existence. it truly is someone acknowledging and responding certainly to the sexuality & femininity/masculinity in yet another. we are able to not all flirt with anybody innocently , obviously! It takes 2 organic hearted self-conscious human beings to flirt innocently. Flirt for the sake of flirting, to liven up human beings's lives. Flirt innocently with the incorrect man or woman it would want to quite be misunderstood. i wish it truly is the case with this guy, that he hadn't found some different person he can flirt innocently with, really than only a shy flirt who hadn't act on pushing for an effect.

Answer 6

try answering a question in class or do something so you know hes watching you then kinda play with your lips with your pen. or maybe not lick it but kind of suck on it. draw attention to your lips some way. also walk right in front of him any chance you get and if you catch him looking at you kind of smile a little to let him know you noticed or maybe wave a little, dont do like some huge thing. but ya know. or when you catch his eye, like that 2-3 second thing smile a little as you look away. also if yall have some of the same friends go talk to them while they are by him.

Answer 7

Adults may relate to a new song by James Blunt (who is up for a Grammy this year) that's called "You're Beautiful" and it takes me back to an experience I had. Now I have peace about it too just to know it happens to other people also. I was writing a check to hand to the Hardware Store's cashier. As I pulled the check loose I looked up to see a man (what a MAN) staring at me a few cash registers away checking out and facing me. We locked eyes for too long, so I froze and stood there with the check in my hand. I don't know how long he had been looking over at me either. The cashier was bagging his things. Our eyes just locked and then I felt like I had just cheated on my husband and shown my trampy or lustful side to the whole Hardware Store. (no one else saw) I walked out past him as stiff as a board to my van and drove away breathless. That was long ago and I still feel funny and wistful about it. But, oh, sorry, lost me there---------------did I mention he was gorgeous?? Now as for you, those long eyelocks turned me on so much and stayed in my memory much longer than any flop in the hay would have. Because I let that scene roll over in my mind for so many years, it even comes back now and my fingers are caressing the keys on------------oh, but back to you. Don't worry about talk. Look at him and lock eyes. Rejoice in YOUR YOUTH!! It's a treasure!!!
And then there was another time--------------------
Good Luck Honey!!! @8-) Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Answer 8

I think you should try the casual bump into the shoulder. Then you should apologize but do it in a sultry mysterious manner as if you are not really sorry. If you want to be more outgoing, do the lip graze, it worked for me. You just sort of graze your lips on his shoulder or cheek then apologize and say that you were pushed.

Answer 9

well, is he in any of your classes? if he is, one day in clase, walk by and just lightly touch his hair and be like, i love your hair, go from there
if he is not in any of your clases, then you have to get his attention...either talk to his friends or drop a book by his locker and have him pick it up...that never fails. when he picks up the book, be like thank you and then talk about if he has some class and whether he knows what the homework was, since he wouldn't know, just be like, ok, sorry to bother you and next whenever you see him in the hallway, smile at him. Hopefully this would help you get started, if you need more, let me know.

Answer 10

I don't know, maybe wink at him, do the flip your hair thing. It's been so long since i did that it is hard to decide. When i was in school & like a guy I always just bumped my breast into him hehee or accidentally fell in his lap. try it out.

Answer 11

Wow, you are already getting hang of it !

You are a woman and need not be taught flirting skills. Just listen to your own intuitions and follow them. A woman can be an excellent flirt just by thinking of doing it.