I am a 9th grader and got asked out today by an 11th grader and she wants to take me to prom too. A "Yes", slipped out of my mouth but I am not ready to date but then I am. Although, I don't know if she broke up with her ex- boyfriend she had. what should i do?
2007-01-17 08:15:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess just go....dince you said you would. It's no big deal. But if you decide it is, let her know ASAP you changed your mind
2007-01-17 08:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her if she was serious. If she was then go with her. You will be the one that went to Prom with an 11th grader. And then just pray that you don't get beat up by any Ex-boyfriends she may have. LOL have fun!
2007-01-17 16:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by BeRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, figure out if you are ready to date or not. Did she ask you to be her boyfriend, or just go one this one date to the prom with you? Even if you are not ready for a relationship, going on this one date to the prom might be good practice/experience for you.
Also, you need to figure out what costs are involved, and who is expected to pay for what. Some proms involve renting a tux, a limo, a fancy dinner, a corsage.... but since SHE asked YOU out, she might not expect you to fork over for all this.
Most importantly, make sure she definitely IS broken up with the ex... it's too rude to date another man's woman!
2007-01-17 16:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask around a bit. See if this girl is serious or not. She could just be playing a prank on you or she might be genuinely interested. Ask some older kids that you are friends with if she really broke up with her ex. If you think she is genuinely interested and you feel comfortable around her, then I think that you are ready to date her.
2007-01-17 16:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats really shallow... that she asked you out... and she wants to take you to the prom... "erks" welp... if shes cute... but boy next year she will graduate and you'll still be stuck in high school. you may never kno who she'll meet @ college... and she'll leave you in the dust. just givin you a fair warning. i was really close to dating a junior... but i thought about it and i told myself no matter how cute the guy is.. its no use dating someone older than you. good luck kid.
2007-01-17 16:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by bd_ilovelife_2010 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u must to make she if she had broke up and follow your mind and heart in the same good luck...
if u feel that u an go out then u must to make sure she want to go out too..
2007-01-17 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ii THiNK U SH0ULD TELL HER U D0NT THiNK UR READY THEN TELL HER U JUST WANT T0 TALK TiLL U ARE 0R JUST BE FRiENDS
AND U DEFF NEED T0 FiND 0UT iF SHE STiLL G0T A MAN 0R N0T
2007-01-17 16:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go with her or you are not ready tell her before its to late. If you wait thats when your gonna be sorry.
2007-01-17 16:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Marianita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go, and becareful to say "yes" again without really meaning it
goood luck
2007-01-17 16:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already said yes, its not a long term commitment, just go and have fun, you could be suprised
2007-01-17 16:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋